Do You Do Any of These Behaviors?

[HellsLittleAngel]

remember, this is mainly a loneliness forum, so for some of us we're beggars who can't be choosers. it's not that i'm being mistreated by them and if I reached out for help they would gladly give it, but I'm just not in their A-list I guess is the best way to put it. It's not like I don't get anything from the relationship, it's just not really on my terms for the most part.

To each their own.

 

[okidoke]

To each their own.

i'm sorry to say this, but that sounds a little condescending. if i had a choice then I'd select to be involved with friends that were as thoughtful as I am, but I don't and I already struggle through too many lonely days so i take the best relationship i can get.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

i'm sorry to say this, but that sounds a little condescending. if i had a choice then I'd select to be involved with friends that were as thoughtful as I am, but I don't and I already struggle through too many lonely days so i take the best relationship i can get.

Which means desperation. I'm very honest and a lot of people can't handle my bluntness.

 

[okidoke]

Which means desperation. I'm very honest and a lot of people can't handle my bluntness.

Yes it does mean desperation. If you're going to excel in the field of mental health, maybe learn to be a little more understanding and tactful because you DO NOT yet understand enough of that field to be making acerbic statements like that.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

Yes it does mean desperation. If you're going to excel in the field of mental health, maybe learn to be a little more understanding and tactful because you DO NOT yet understand enough of that field to be making acerbic statements like that.

I absolutely do. You have no idea the life I've been through and what I've seen. I know mental health like the back of my hand, which is why it's so easy for me to speak on it from different views. You just can't handle my type of assertive and direct personality. A lot of people can't. I deal with so many people with mental health issues. I've helped quite a few, little do you know.

 

[okidoke]

In five minutes you think you understand me? Seriously? And why do you assume nobody else has any experience? Your arrogance is astounding.

 

[Abstamyous]

If I speak or reach out to someone, it's because I genuinely want to connect with them.

I wouldn't be online as much if I didn't feel frazzled and disorganized though. Sorry guys.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

In five minutes you think you understand me? Seriously? And why do you assume nobody else has any experience? Your arrogance is astounding.

I never said I understood you in any way. I also never assumed anyone else hasn't had my issues. I said I know from my own personal experience and others. Some have had the same, similar, or different experiences. But, you don't know anything about me or what I've been through. Yet, you got awfully offended when I said something you assumed wasn't the case, rolled with it (like most do), and got upset. I've noticed that you get easily upset or offended by people and things that you don't agree with. It seems you've twisted my words into what you wanted them to mean to you, so you can call me arrogant. Although, I can be arrogant, I wasn't being that way on this post. You just didn't like my answers and assertive behavior. I'm 100% authentic and as real as they come. The minute something sounds good, I get a kudos, but the minute you don't agree with me, I'm arrogant? Lucky for me, your responses don't effect or bother me. I'm not easily offended by much of anything.

 

[TheSkaFish]

If I speak or reach out to someone, it's because I genuinely want to connect with them.

I wouldn't be online as much if I didn't feel frazzled and disorganized though. Sorry guys.

This is me, exactly. Wanting connection, but "frazzled and disorganized".
Totally get where you're coming from, and it is the reason for my bad message delays.