Fetish?

[Rawr!]

It's one thing to be lonely, but when you've got a fetish, the odds of finding a significant other that can jive with you diminishes significantly.

I'm probably on my own here, but anybody else feel further isolated by something like this?

 

[NEREVAR117]

I don't think it really does anything. At least not for social status or in a relationship. But then again it depends on the fetish. I have a bit of an anime fetish, but some people like absolutely odd things, which can make it hard I suppose.

 

[davechaos]

Of course the one thing you must consider is that whether or not you actually have a weird fetish or not...

Let me tell you a couple of the things I do and then tell me whether you think they are weird...

I take part in a play my mail American Football game with people around the UK...now how weird is that!! I also love to travel to watch my favourite football team when we aren't very good...now that has to be weird.

Seriously though, after my attempted humour...never explain to others why you like doing the things that you do when it is part of your life. As long as they are not illegal then who is anyone to judge what you do.

As for finding a significant other...if you get out to meet people in the fetish that you like, or hobby would be a better word, then you are more likely to meet someone of the same feelings and thoughts...you will always have one thing in common..a starting point to chat...a starting point to befriend.

 

[Steel]

Hey Rawr

Ok, I'm going to make the assumption that your fetish is both sexual and legal. While it's hard to comment on a fetish without knowing its nature, I'm about to give it a try.

First off there are contact magazines, clubs and so forth.. the problem here is that such magazines tend to be based upon sexual encounters, and not relationships, and so I doubt that they are what you were looking for.

Not all people, however, are closed-minded when it comes to sex. All you really need is someone confident enough in their sexuality that they are willing to try other things. Personally, I have always found it an erotic experience to fulfill a partner's fantasies, simply because their arousal is a great aphrodisiac. I've picked up a few "kinks" of my own this way, and have passed some on as well.

Discussion in relationships is important, and while it can be difficult to broach the subject of sex that deviates from the "norm", I think you'll find that many people are quite open to the subject of experimentation, and very possibly have a few ideas of their own they want to try out!

 

[Lonesome Crow]

I don't really have a fetish.

There's Obsessive,complusive disorders.
This I don't have. Howard Huges had it.

I have obsessive, complusive personality disorder. There's a slight different.
I can become obsess or addict to anything.
Even something as good as love or a healthy hobbie...I can become obsessed with.
Too much of anything is not good.
I can kind of relate to a person with OCD...but I don't really go into a convulsion.
I recognized the bad habits...but i do them evenways...as a person with OCD would.
Then i suffer the consiquence which will froce me to stop.
I get carzy withdraws, but I'll come out of it if i work through it.

Sometimes i can play my guitar for days and days. It can be a positive thing becuase i'll get really good at it.
But the consiquence of it is...it effects other aspect of my life..mostly becuase i have responsibilties
wheater it be work , relationships, or shores around the house.

It's a double edge swore for me when it pretains to a relationship with a woman.
I get really into them and what women dosn't want a man to be obsessed with her.lol
But as the relationship progress....I'm becomes too clingie to her.
If you add jealouscy into the equation...it can be fun !!!.lmao
I try to counter balance it as much as I can with my own interest.
But then i get so into whatever I get into wheather it be work, hobbies..ect
I stop paying attention to my partner.lol That happy middle of the road has always been
a challenge for me. I get better at it as i go.

Actaully getting bored or a feeling of bordom is good for me...if that make sence.
I'm no longer in a state of being obsessed.

A person with OCD has no control over their so call fetish.
It dosn't have to be sexual..It could be like being anal retentive with catching germs.

You might want to do some reserch on it.

 

[SadRabbit]

Depends on how weird your fetish is. If it involves hurting the person you love, then i think you ought to evaluate your actions. But don't worry, I am sure out there somewhere, there is this one girl that shares your fetish =)

 

[Unacceptance]

As long as there's sex, there's people out there willing to deal with it.

 

[Naleena]

It's one thing to be lonely, but when you've got a fetish, the odds of finding a significant other that can jive with you diminishes significantly.

I'm probably on my own here, but anybody else feel further isolated by something like this?

No, because I'm such a different person that a fetish won't make or break me....lol

 

[TheSkaFish]

Totally. In fact I lied about the entire reason I'm on here.

The truth isn't that I struggle to get dates, but that they struggle with my fetish, which is, in the bedroom I wear nothing but a George Bush mask and a cowboy hat, and I insist on being referred to as "Mr. President". 99% of women just don't get it and walk out on me. When that happens, I consider myself impeached.

It's become my mission in life to confuse the youth of the future about whether or not GWB was a porn star.
In 5000 years' time, I want the archaeologists to be like "at the turn of the 21st century, the US president was this guy named George Bush...experts are split on whether or not he also did porn. I mean, there's no evidence to say he did, but there isn't any to say he didn't, either".

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Totally. In fact I lied about the entire reason I'm on here.

The truth isn't that I struggle to get dates, but that they struggle with my fetish, which is, in the bedroom I wear nothing but a George Bush mask and a cowboy hat, and I insist on being referred to as "Mr. President". 99% of women just don't get it and walk out on me. When that happens, I consider myself impeached.

It's become my mission in life to confuse the youth of the future about whether or not GWB was a porn star.
In 5000 years' time, I want the archaeologists to be like "at the turn of the 21st century, the US president was this guy named George Bush...experts are split on whether or not he also did porn. I mean, there's no evidence to say he did, but there isn't any to say he didn't, either".

All this time I thought your fetish was.... well... involving ... mermaids lolz

 

[TheSkaFish]

All this time I thought your fetish was.... well... involving ... mermaids lolz

Hey, stop putting ideas in my head! You're a bad influence!

 

[user 135671]

All this time I thought your fetish was.... well... involving ... mermaids lolz

Princess I reckon he does have a mermaid fetish but it's the legs of a woman ( maybe wearing heels ) and the body of a fish

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Princess I reckon he does have a mermaid fetish but it's the legs of a woman ( maybe wearing heels ) and the body of a fish

You might just be right! But now... I cant unsee that lol I have a vivid imagination lol

 

[user 135671]

 

[sub5male]

Most women have a height fetish for tall men & the shorter the women is the taller the men she is attracted to.

 

[TheSkaFish]

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[mr.meeseeks]

fetishes could be the result of lonliness.

 

[user 139760]

That reminds me of my own fetish.
I mean, really. Why the hate for a simple Strawberry Shortcake outfit?
Women are so shallow...

 

[okidoke]

If a fetish isn’t making a witness recoil or puke, it’s just a preference