FOR MEN: Looks don't mean ****...

[Jesse]

I think people put too much value on looks, and not enough value on the content of the person.

Nilla that's exactly what I'm saying. That's why I have so much trouble with women, because they put too much value on looks.

 

[Badjedidude]

That's why I have so much trouble with women, because they put too much value on looks.

Yeah, that would be true... except that every woman on this site who's seen you agrees that you're good-looking/handsome.

I think you have trouble with women because you lack self-confidence, not because of anything having to do with your looks.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Reading this made me want to stick needles in my eyes and pour gasoline up my nose. I can never get back the previous five minutes of my life. tsk, tsk

Put some emotions and desires into it..when you poke yourself.
It's alright,I'll hold you tight and keep you safe...hahaaaaa
Damn Eve...I'm not enough octane for ya ????
Didn't I always gave U want you wanted....
It's going take alot more than five mins when I set your world on fire

 

[EveWasFramed]

lol, LC, you're such a tart.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

lol, LC, you're such a tart.

Reading this makes me wanna stick something in someone. hahhahahaa...

If it feels good, looks good, smells..I'll probably eat it too.
After I lick it of course.....I'm a guy for crying out loud.

I'm not a fart

 

[VanillaCreme]

That's why I have so much trouble with women, because they put too much value on looks.

Yeah, that would be true... except that every woman on this site who's seen you agrees that you're good-looking/handsome.

I think you have trouble with women because you lack self-confidence, not because of anything having to do with your looks.

Exactly, Jedi. I know many of females here, including myself, said you were handsome. Your eyes are gorgeous. But there's something within yourself that makes you not believe us. It has nothing to do with what you look like.

 

[EveWasFramed]

lol, LC, you're such a tart.

Reading this makes me wanna stick something in someone. hahhahahaa...

If it feels good, looks good, smells..I'll probably eat it too.
After I lick it of course.....I'm a guy for crying out loud.

I'm not a fart

lmao, you know full well I said TART, not fart.
Though you seem to have that confused with Poptart, as you want to eat it.

 

[EveWasFramed]

That's why I have so much trouble with women, because they put too much value on looks.

Yeah, that would be true... except that every woman on this site who's seen you agrees that you're good-looking/handsome.

I think you have trouble with women because you lack self-confidence, not because of anything having to do with your looks.

I agree, Jesse. I've ALWAYS said you were a handsome guy. Well-mannered too. There is NOTHING wrong with your appearance.

 

[epic fale boy]

...being good-looking is so tied up with psychology. Someone can go from being gorgeous to goompa in a flick of the eye-light, y'know?

The little light that shines from a person's eyes, which bathes their face in beauty...

...it works the other way round too - someone who thinks they're hot tries to switch it on, and it becomes this heavy plasticky sheen of ...uhhh...

... if someone's genuinely happy, they're genuinely better looking.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

If looks dosn't mean ****, then I'm living on the wrong fucken planet.
Reality is that it dose. Poeple will simply hate me simply becuase of my looks.
I've been with beautiful women all my life. and I'm guilty of chosing to be with
a woman becuase of her looks. It's not the dominating factor...but it is a factor.

Any woman that say my looks dosn't play a role of what type of relationship she will have with me is full of ****.
All the women in my life that I formed intimate relationships with, asked me out. Obviously they find me attractive.
All of which happens to be blonde hair, blue/hazel eyes cucasian women.
Never the less my looks (or rather my race) play a role and makes **** more fucken complicated than I wish it to be.
It's my truth, my experince and reality. No fucken experts had lived or walked in my shoes for a single day.
They sure the hell can't say what my reality/truth is or isn't.

Racism. It's all about looks..Sherlock Holmes.


Btw Eve....I've been known to make beautiful babies.
Anytime you wanna create something beautiful with me...I ma be willing.hahahahaaa

 

[Jesse]

That's why I have so much trouble with women, because they put too much value on looks.

Yeah, that would be true... except that every woman on this site who's seen you agrees that you're good-looking/handsome.

I think you have trouble with women because you lack self-confidence, not because of anything having to do with your looks.

Exactly, Jedi. I know many of females here, including myself, said you were handsome. Your eyes are gorgeous. But there's something within yourself that makes you not believe us. It has nothing to do with what you look like.

Yeah I guess I know. I'm trying not to think irrationally anymore, but it's really difficult. I do need confidence. I really don't have any in myself.

I still think that looks matter though- maybe not in my case...In my case I guess I'll admit I have very poor self esteem.

 

[VanillaCreme]

Well, you said it yourself. Looks matter to you. So that means yours as well, and for whatever reason, you think you're not attractive enough. And you possibly place more value on what you look like to women than how you act towards women.

 

[Badjedidude]

And you possibly place more value on what you look like to women than how you act towards women.

Yup.

 

[Jesse]

Well, you said it yourself. Looks matter to you. So that means yours as well, and for whatever reason, you think you're not attractive enough. And you possibly place more value on what you look like to women than how you act towards women.

I didn't say looks matter to me. I think looks matter when it comes to meeting women though. They're more likely to be interested in finding out who the hot guy is rather than the other guy.

The reason why I think I'm not attractive enough is because that's what I've always been told. When people (like those from the forum) started telling me opposite it was completely new to what I grew up hearing. Of course it'd be hard for me to believe.

I don't place more value on what I look like to women than how I act. I worry about both equally.

 

[Badjedidude]

I didn't say looks matter to me. I think looks matter when it comes to meeting women though. They're more likely to be interested in finding out who the hot guy is rather than the other guy.

You DO say that looks matter to you, because looks and their role in dating seems to be the thing you talk about most.

 

[VanillaCreme]

Judging a book by its cover is probably the worst mistake people make when it comes to dating and being with someone. Sure, they make look nice and hawt and whatever else these kids say now days, but if there's no content in that book, why bother? Would you buy a book with blank pages?

I also think you contradict yourself a bit, Jesse. You say, "I didn't say looks matter to me." but then you say, "I think looks matter when it comes to meeting women though." You either care about them or you don't. How can it matter when meeting women, but doesn't matter at all?

It depends on the person. Not every woman will think of you the same. While some may pay close attention to how you look, others may be more into personality.

 

[Jesse]

I didn't say looks matter to me. I think looks matter when it comes to meeting women though. They're more likely to be interested in finding out who the hot guy is rather than the other guy.

You DO say that looks matter to you, because looks and their role in dating seems to be the thing you talk about most.

I thought that's what this thread was about- the role looks play in dating.

What do you mean by saying looks matter to me?

 

[Badjedidude]

What do you mean by saying looks matter to me?

It is evident by your actions and discussion on forum and in chat that looks do indeed matter to you, and in a big way.

I'm not insulting you or something, man. Just tellin' it straight as I sees it.

 

[Jesse]

Judging a book by its cover is probably the worst mistake people make when it comes to dating and being with someone. Sure, they make look nice and hawt and whatever else these kids say now days, but if there's no content in that book, why bother? Would you buy a book with blank pages?

People do judge a book by its cover, that's what I'm saying. They're more likely to notice the pretty cover before the plain one. A pretty cover will have a better chance of getting someone to look inside. I don't care what my cover is, but I think other people do.

 

[VanillaCreme]

Judging a book by its cover is probably the worst mistake people make when it comes to dating and being with someone. Sure, they make look nice and hawt and whatever else these kids say now days, but if there's no content in that book, why bother? Would you buy a book with blank pages?

People do judge a book by its cover, that's what I'm saying. They're more likely to notice the pretty cover before the plain one. A pretty cover will have a better chance of getting someone to look inside. I don't care what my cover is, but I think other people do.

You judge books by covers as well. You have said before that looks matter to you. If they didn't, then you wouldn't have even cared about this at all. Pretty people don't have better chances. I don't know who fed you that, but it's not 100% true. If you get someone such as myself, who looks don't matter to, I pay more attention to how a guy reacts to things, and if I can talk to him comfortably or not. I'd rather pick up a plain book.