Friends...

[danceintherainx3]

Okay, so.. I'm really confused and crap.
My 'friends' are always trying to be super cool & crap.
And so their all considered the "populars" .
Their my friends, so I want to hang out with them. But I hate that fact that people think that I'm one of the "popluars".
Some people even hate me for being ' one of them '. And there's this one girl, and she thinks she's the BEST of all of us. She thinks she's our "leader". And she always makes me feel like a piece of shi*.
But we also hang out with guys, and I guess flirt. And none of the other people hang with guys. Okay, so now your caught up.
So there's this guy, and he's my best friend. My friends all hate him because of that one stupid girl who thinks she's the leader of us.
They went out like last year, and she said that he " cheated on her"
( which he didn't )
And he's my bff. And all the rest of my friends hate me now for haning with him, What do I do?[/font]

 

[eris]

hi try not to worry about what people think, and be friends with the people you like, even if they are popular.

Not liking something for being popular is just as silly as not liking something for being unpopular.

If someone makes you feel like a peice of ****, maybe you shouldnt be their friend. I know, she is just there with your friends and you have to deal with her sucks

Stick with your bff he sounds nice

 

[tehdreamer]

I'd say dump the snotty people who make you feel bad and keep your bff. Best friends are hard to find and can be there for you forever. People who make you feel like **** need to be dumped to the curb because they'll only tear you down. Spend less time with those other people and hang out more with your bff.

 

[Brother Karl]

Try and stay with all your friends if you like them. But dont let them tell you who you can or cant hang out with. Simples.

 

[Brian]

This sounds suspiciously like you're in high school or junior high.

The ultimate answer is to wait a short four years or so and get in to the real world where that magically goes away and nobody cares.

The short term solution, though, I think would be to stir up **** by making friends with less popular kids and ditching the people you hang out with right now. Speaking from the other end of the spectrum but having a neutral point of view on it all as an adult, the popular kids aren't very good role models or good people, period. They grow up to become either college drunks or life failures or some ugly combination of the two.

The less popular kids are less popular because they think on their own and make smart decisions, which for some reason are derided in our culture today.

In doing this you would probably stir up all kinds of **** in the social cesspool of highschool and offend all the right people. It would be like painting a masterpiece and you could certainly take pride in it, in my opinion.

 

[kinley121]

I would advise her to ignore the leader completely. Even our group had a girl who were always trying to boss on us. Finally we became fed up and threw her out. I think the same treatment should be given to the leader also. I am of the view that she should continue to meet her boyfriend and enjoy her life. I would like to remind her that this is her life and therefore she has every right to live it to the maximum.