Getting it off my chest, once and for all

[Isla]

Well, the guy who told me he loved me, told me I was his soul mate, made promises of a future together, made me cum 3 times over the phone, talked about body painting, lots of oral both ways (69 being my favourite number), lots of exploration of sex, lots of affection, conversation, hikes in the woods, time spent together and maturity over all...

It was all ****. He was full of it. I was just a fantasy for him while he got over his ex-girlfriend. And I know he's not over her at all because I now know that's how our problems started. Me asking about him and her, and him hanging up on me.

He did the cowardly thing and emailed me tonight with some insipid explanation of his actions...trying to "let me down easy" again, lol....instead of talking with me over the phone. I predicted that though, cowards are cowards. Plus he never ever saw that what he did was wrong and cruel.

I will go forward though and find a guy who actually loves me, and not just my body.

You suck mountain man. You used me and you know it. Enjoy your lonely life. Oh don't worry, you can hide and tell the world how much of a victim you are, I won't be around to watch, but realize, I wasn't this bitter until three weeks ago when you decided to give me the silent treatment.

 

[LoneKiller]

Hi Isla. Nice to meet you.

I am sorry to hear about your current dilemma. I'm guessing that you are more hurt as opposed to angry. It is pretty ****** of a person to use another like that. I know that saying you aren't the only one to go through this in life will give you no solace so I won't feed you that crap.

He obviously has misjudged your intelligence and common sense. Your attitude about this is good. Forget this guy and move on. It's the only thing that will bring you peace.

I truly hope that you find someone that will treat you the way you should be treated. That being honest in their intentions. You are hurt right now. Stay strong, and every day it will get a little better. I promise you.

God Bless.
LK

 

[WallflowerGirl83]

Hey. I'm really sorry that he did this too you. Lots of guys did that to me in the past and got sucked in. Sometimes guys know what to say to woman, but keep in mind not all men are like him. Just keep yourself guarded and don't let it down until your sure that they love you. My ex bf messed with me too after we broke up and acted as if we were still a couple. But deep down I know were not together but I missed him so much. and I still kinda do in ways to be honest... It really hurts and it's painful, please message me if you want to talk ok.

Also you did nothing wrong. I fell for the same thing before, good thing we learn from things we've done. It's what helps us grow.

 

[IgnoredOne]

Surprisingly nice of him to actually send an email to try to let you down easy.

I suppose you've yet to realize how much worse the world is.

 

[Veilside05]

The right person will come along and will love you and not just your body. Meanwhile - ask him to F off.

 

[perfanoff]

Well, the guy who told me he loved me, told me I was his soul mate, made promises of a future together, made me cum 3 times over the phone, talked about body painting, lots of oral both ways (69 being my favourite number), lots of exploration of sex, lots of affection, conversation, hikes in the woods, time spent together and maturity over all...

It was all ****. He was full of it. I was just a fantasy for him while he got over his ex-girlfriend. And I know he's not over her at all because I now know that's how our problems started. Me asking about him and her, and him hanging up on me.

He did the cowardly thing and emailed me tonight with some insipid explanation of his actions...trying to "let me down easy" again, lol....instead of talking with me over the phone. I predicted that though, cowards are cowards. Plus he never ever saw that what he did was wrong and cruel.

I will go forward though and find a guy who actually loves me, and not just my body.

You suck mountain man. You used me and you know it. Enjoy your lonely life. Oh don't worry, you can hide and tell the world how much of a victim you are, I won't be around to watch, but realize, I wasn't this bitter until three weeks ago when you decided to give me the silent treatment.

And a winner is you

 

[Sci-Fi]

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