Got so lonely I called escort

[TheRealCallie]

You are. You're likely frightening her very much if you call her again about this. Your words are the *exact* same ones that are said by stalkers and sex offenders. In their own minds these people have no other recourse but to contact this person "one more time"

I'm not saying this to insult you. I know you're in great pain right now, so much so that I am actually worried over how this will turn out for you. I don't want you to get into the sort of trouble that puts you on some sort of list where they put pedophiles and ****.

I have my serious face on right now, we're in the serious room with the serious table in it. If you know anything about me at all from this forum is that I am NEVER serious. About anything. So I need you to understand right now how big of a deal it is for me to say this. .

Please please please for her sake do not call her again for this. She will be afraid of you, you will be frightening her. She will hate you. That is the last thing you want right now.

At the very least, give yourself a test before you do this. Call up a different escort and have sex with her. Then see if you still want to call this first girl again. At the very least it will give you some time before you go ahead and do this. What have you got to lose?

Wtf your comparing me with pedophiles and stalkers!!

OK NOW I am done with you all!

He was using the OP's words.

 

[EveWasFramed]

OK...maybe others interpreted Lim's post differently than I did, but I'm personally giving him props for trying to explain to Hawx what people might "think" of him, should he continue on his present course. Lim (in my opinion) did not call him any of those names and that's pretty clear to me. He was trying to help him AVOID being labelled as such. He obviously has taken Hawx seriously and tried to help. I see no reason to beat him up over it. Just my two cents.

 

[ladyforsaken]

This is crazy.

I think Hawx is overwhelmed and stressed out enough as it is with how he's feeling, I don't think it's helping if people are bickering over what's being said here. If anything, we should all be working towards the same goal, which is trying to help Hawx.

I don't believe Hawx has trouble understanding what's been adviced to him here. There is only so much we all can do. Ultimately, like some of you have said, it's his decision. He feels so strongly about doing this - let's face it, sometimes we need to go through things the hard road. Soooo many people have said their piece and there are some common advice and suggestions and I'm pretty sure Hawx got it. But, I don't think he wants to back away.

Again, like in my previous post in this thread, I'm saying that I'm not encouraging Hawx to do this, in fact, I too, think that it's not a good idea for Hawx to call her again, BUT if that is what it takes for him to find some peace, then I wish Hawx good luck in doing it and hope that he'll come out of it better and hopefully, learned something from this experience and use it to move on.

Also, with regards to Limlim's post, I think he made a really good post, I don't want to talk about the name-calling or comparison or whatever **** because it's already been addressed but Lim's intention was clearly and absolutely apparent - if anyone knew him on this forum at all. Sometimes when someone takes that extra effort to do something they don't usually do, it says a lot about how much they care of what they're talking about and I just wanted to show my appreciation to Lim for that. Even if it doesn't concern me, I think that was really nice of him to speak up like that. So Hawx, Lim wasn't trying to insult you. He was merely trying to help, like everyone else who has posted here.

 

[Batman55]

I can't believe taking -this- road is what would do it after this many years, just goes to show I should have stayed a forum troll. Was a fun ride everyone! Thanks for all the fish!

This place wouldn't be the same without you around.

Don't let this minor quibble push you out, bro.

 

[Rosebolt]

What the **** is going on here?

Lim makes a genuine honest post, filled with honest and good advice, and you attack him for it? I'm surprised you didn't outright ban him or close the thread for replying to you the way he did.

Hawx, i can understand you feel insulted by Lim, but please understand he is trying to help you. You're not a pedophile, not at all, and no one here is saying that you are. I can't imagine the pain you must be in now, i wish you the very best of luck.

Please don't leave, Lim, both your troll you and your serious you are immensily appreciated, believe me! The problems can be changed!

 

[EveWasFramed]

Hawx...please feel free to make threads as you feel the need to. This one being closed has nothing to do with anything you've posted - it's just continuing to go off topic - even I'm somewhat guilty of doing it. Thank you for understanding and we will try to do a better job at keeping the next one on topic.