Have you ever been caught in a love triangle?

[Azariah]

Me no, but I want to know what it's like just in case it happens to me.

 

[duff]

Plenty of triangles that involved me and 2 others who eventually become a couple.

last one was 3 years ago. I was seeing this woman and she told me she was going abroad for a xmas holiday. I got texts from her, 'enjoying the weather', 'having a nice time' etc - somebody I know saw her going into her house and told me. I went around to confront her, the back door was open and there was this bloke in the kitchen making a cup of tea. I walked away without him seeing me. The 'going abroad for an holiday' was a lie so she could spend time with some other bloke. As a story it's a cracker. (She even changed the time in her text to make it more convincing !)

How did I feel ? Mad more than anything. That I had been treated so poorly with so little respect.

Anyway I hardly lost any sleep over it. Some people are just **** !

 

[Sigma]

What it's like is jealousy breaks everything apart. People start seeing and creating problems where non exist. And everything you do seems to backfire.
Or maybe I just did it wrong.
Either way, hope you stay inexperienced in the matter.

 

[ucxb]

There was no love involved in the few I experienced, luckily I was confronted or found out through rumors and was easily able to just say "I'm out". Since there were no strings attached I did not feel pain just a short period of soap opera f**king drama....

 

[duff]

well all of mine, I probably had a crush and the woman didn't even know about it.

It was common for me when I was 18 or so to see a woman I like start dating somebody else.

 

[Alienated]

This might not be what you expect, but hang with me.

MY whole teenage years.... I loved my Mom... but the Bitch kept throwing my **** in the trash !!

She would always find it... and take it away !! I loved my Penthouse, I loved my Swank, but I was always pulling it out of the trash. As long as I could stare at my ladies a hour a day, I could put up with the crazy **** that would come out of Mom's mouth....

But NOOOO.... Not my 1976 May issue of Swank Legs Wide Open !!! I attribute my insecurities to my mother, making me dig through the trash for all the loves of my young life !!

And when I started banging the girl Next door that was 3 years older than me, she even had to bitch about that. When I get a little afternoon delight everyday in my brothers van, that sat in the driveway.... Bitch, bitch, bitch. And I was 19 years old !! My brother was even jealous cause I was getting more than him, and he was the star quarter back in high school. And I was just a nerd !!

But then when she found out I was sleeping with my friends divorced mom,, OOHHH **** !! My parents threatened to disown me, and called me UN-natural !! And I was 28 freaking years old, so what if she was 39 !! But since my brother had been killed 5 years earlier, it laid a bigger guilt trip on me. So I broke off the relationship, and haven't had one since... That was 20 years ago...

So yes... I loved my mom.... but now I can't have a freaking relationship, because I will always hear... Bitch, bitch, bitch !! And feel guilty as hell for even trying to find someone... And my mothers been dead for 5 years now. I can't even get close to someone I am attracted to without feeling like I am pissing my mom off. I know that is sick as hell, but you asked !! Welcome to my hell !!

Now I have no one... Everybody has died............. Love sucks !!

 

[Walley]

I have a friend, that used to live with 2 girlfriends!, if you can imagine..
I know it sounds like a guys fantasy lol
a manwich between 2 bisexual strippers!
but let me tell you... it's not all lube and tickles!
all of us around him used to laugh and pity him 99% of the time.

just imagine the drama that comes from dating one stripper with issues, and multiply that by 4..

those few moments of ecstasy he experienced where shattered by months of pain and suffering and ended with a bottle-breaking brawl at a party that wasn't even that fun to watch!

do not ever wish to be in a love triangle unless its a one night stand!

 

[khaoz_ferox]

Not really a love triangle but I did find myself in a situation where I was used to make another guy jealous.

They ended up together, I ended up with abusive phone calls.

 

[ladyforsaken]

You really wouldn't wanna experience it. It's different when you hear it from others, and when you see it happening.. to when you're actually experiencing it yourself.

 

[GraceBlossom]

It can hurt like hell if they choose the other person. I wouldn't recommend getting in that if it can be helped.

 

[Alienated]

You really wouldn't wanna experience it. It's different when you hear it from others, and when you see it happening.. to when you're actually experiencing it yourself.

No truer words have been said !! I rips you apart like a chicken wing.

 

[Gutted]

I have been in a love triangle, sort of. It was very awkward and confusing. I liked a girl who didn't appear to like me back (but she did. She was just bipolar and so she had these mood swings). Then I met her friend who I liked and she did like me back. We started going out, but didn't tell the other girl at first. We thought she didn't like me, so it wouldn't be a big deal. But we still thought we best keep it quiet. Eventually, the other girl did say she liked me. That was when I told her I'm not single. Long story short, she was not happy. She fell out with her other friend and all but stopped talking to me. We tried to get on but she just wasn't interested suddenly. In time, we drifted apart. God knows what became of her x]