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Wayfarer

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waking up one day and leaving everything and everyone behind? I mean just going to another country, for example, without telling anything to anyone and maybe starting a new life there?

Would someone start searching for you if you disappeared suddenly? Would anyone miss you?
 
Wayfarer said:
waking up one day and leaving everything and everyone behind? I mean just going to another country, for example, without telling anything to anyone and maybe starting a new life there?

Would someone start searching for you if you disappeared suddenly? Would anyone miss you?

Yes if I won the lottery. Move to another city and start a new life. Live on the coast near a golf course. That sounds good !
People at work would probably miss me for 5 minutes maybe. I don't know. I think the customers would miss me more.
 
I've told both of my parents that if I ever disappear they are not to make any attempt at finding me. I've had my bags packed before, but there are so many things I would need to arrange and no matter how much I may like to disappear, I am unwilling to leave behind all my worldly possessions.

The thing that keeps me here is my nieces and nephew. They're all lovely and they seem to need me around - I'd never make them suffer just so I could have an 'easier' life.
 
I've thought about it many many times but most likely won't do it.

I'm too settled into my own place and it would be very hard for me to give this up.
 
I'm always thinking about moving somewhere and being all by myself, but considering my health, it's not something I can do without having everything covered. Which means I just can't decide to go somewhere else without any stable job in sight and I also have to consider if I'll find my expensive and special food in the place I want to go.

I turned into an old lady too fast for my liking.
 
I haven't thought about just leaving without telling anyone, but I've wondered who would care if I was dead. Not from suicide, but just if I died somehow, I've often wondered who would care that I was gone. I think it's due to not being told that I matter in anyone's life.
 
All the time. I wouldn't have the guts for it, but I think about things in that nature quite a bit.

I'm sure somebody in my family circle would make some attempt at searching for me. All the reason to keep moving lol.
 
Wayfarer said:
waking up one day and leaving everything and everyone behind? I mean just going to another country, for example, without telling anything to anyone and maybe starting a new life there?

Would someone start searching for you if you disappeared suddenly? Would anyone miss you?

YES!! All the damn time. I still hope I can do this.

Maybe my family would search for me - oh probably mainly due to the fact that I provide for them and support them most of the time. Friends? Probably the few close friends would but the rest probably would not have noticed.

I so hope I can do this one day.
 
Yes I think about leaving all of the time but if I will ever be able to do so I won't leave without a trace, I'm sure some people will miss me and I don't want to cause distress to anyone.

Starting over in a faraway land sounds great but I just can't leave everything behind and never look back.
 
the moment my mother is gone, no one will notice - maybe one, but she already leaves in another country
actually, I left a lot of times and no one noticed, with Facebook now everything is more visible
 
Wayfarer said:
waking up one day and leaving everything and everyone behind? I mean just going to another country, for example, without telling anything to anyone and maybe starting a new life there?

Yes.

Wayfarer said:
Would someone start searching for you if you disappeared suddenly? Would anyone miss you?

Family. I couldn't be callous enough to hurt them that way.
 
Wayfarer said:
waking up one day and leaving everything and everyone behind? I mean just going to another country, for example, without telling anything to anyone and maybe starting a new life there?

Would someone start searching for you if you disappeared suddenly? Would anyone miss you?

Think about this everyday. I still want to.

If I got the finances to, why not? Today even! Wishful thinking.

But, my family would notice the day I leave.
 

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