He who cares least controls the relationship

[Phaedron]

I woke up and realized one day to observe what women do, not what they say.

Herein lie wisdom.

Also, when you're constantly asking and affirming that that dress doesn't make you look fat, it becomes second nature to manage everyone and everything.

mine is a good example. She doesn't break up with me, she just purposely becomes a ***** so that I'll do it, even to the point of sleeping with another guy. And though I spent 6 months hoping and sending her stuff, somehow she is this nice little angel for decieving me, giving me false hopes, using me to get stuff, instead of telling me its over. It is so insidious to watch someone commit great evil in a way they can have a clear conscience about it.

 

[VanillaCreme]

Her being a ***** to you was probably a sign of her not wanting to be with you anymore. And you decided to give her stuff. No one made you. If you were suckered into buying her anything, that's on you. She cut you off, so you should have cut her off. You didn't.


Btw, that's a good thing about being fat. I don't need to ask if I look it. :>

 

[Electric_Fusilier]

Yeah exactly.

For all you needy incel males out there, I would strongly recommend devoting 24/7 of your life to getting cash, muscles, and eventually fame, and you will have women throwing themselves at you.

Lolz - this reminds of that Lev Yilmatz cartoon - in particular, the guy at the end:

 

[TheWickedOne]

Some of the guys in our high school were like that. I think I know which one Lev is talking about. Guy was not too bright.

 

[SophiaGrace]

Relationships are hard Phaedron. You may need some time to recover from the effects of this one. It sounds like it was a rough ride for you. Be gentle with yourself. Give yourself time to heal. You deserve it.