Heart on your sleeve

[CenotaphGirl]

Can't be cheating if I'm single.

Honestly single men have cheated on me before I saw them with another girl and went home and had ice cream and dr pepper and listened to a Taylor Swift playlist

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Honestly single men have cheated on me before I saw them with another girl and went home and had ice cream and dr pepper and listened to a Taylor Swift playlist

Girls do that! But WHY do girls do that??
That happens to me, I don't understand.
Years ago there was a girl I asked out and she rejected me, but then when I moved on she got mad at me.

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lol you're cute.. ^Apex in a nutshell

Basically, yeah. lol.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Girls do that! But WHY do girls do that??
That happens to me, I don't understand.
Years ago there was a girl I asked out and she rejected me, but then when I moved on she got mad at me.



Basically, yeah. lol.

Ugh nothing worse when a guy stops chasing its like… whats soooo good about her to make you stop chasing me wheres my ice cream…

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Ugh nothing worse when a guy stops chasing its like… whats soooo good about her to make you stop chasing me wheres my ice cream…

I mean I get that, but like, I asked her out like 3x, all 3 times she said no.
Then she started seeing some other guy, and I was like .
And she got mad at me.
I'm not allowed to be with her, but not allowed to be with anyone else, either, is that right, Cen?

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I mean I get that, but like, I asked her out like 3x, all 3 times she said no.
Then she started seeing some other guy, and I was like .
And she got mad at me.
I'm not allowed to be with her, but not allowed to be with anyone else, either, is that right, Cen?

Yeps men must be in the reserved section, but if you’re as vain as me some women you think oh please he’ll leave her anytime I they ask and men dooo do that, so why do men move on just to come back to ya? I’ll never understand that.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Yeps men must be in the reserved section, but if you’re as vain as me some women you think oh please he’ll leave her anytime I they ask and men dooo do that, so why do men move on just to come back to ya? I’ll never understand that.

She married the guy.
Although by the time I'd long gotten over her.
Mostly because, by that time her and I had already gotten into a couple of really bad arguments.
We totally stopped talking for like 2 years, when we were like really platonically close before.
Her man was like "listen, I don't want you two fighting all the time, I don't want to hear it."
So I told him, "she's not my girl, so tell her not to impose on my life like that."
And more or less after that she shut up.
So later, I'm hanging out with them and we're all in the living room smoking, and she says to me:
"Listen, I know I get kinda crazy and out of pocket sometimes, if I do, just call me out on it and put me in my place."
And so I'm thinking to myself: WTF, that's not my job...that's HIS job!

 

[Rohini]

^ Sounds like a bunny-boiler to me..

 

[CenotaphGirl]

She married the guy.
Although by the time I'd long gotten over her.
Mostly because, by that time her and I had already gotten into a couple of really bad arguments.
We totally stopped talking for like 2 years, when we were like really platonically close before.
Her man was like "listen, I don't want you two fighting all the time, I don't want to hear it."
So I told him, "she's not my girl, so tell her not to impose on my life like that."
And more or less after that she shut up.
So later, I'm hanging out with them and we're all in the living room smoking, and she says to me:
"Listen, I know I get kinda crazy and out of pocket sometimes, if I do, just call me out on it and put me in my place."
And so I'm thinking to myself: WTF, that's not my job...that's HIS job!

She was saying just spank me when he’s not looking and you was like excuse me… im not your behavioural manager, consult your husband.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

^ Sounds like a bunny-boiler to me..

I actually had to Google that to learn what that was.
Maybe, IDK, those two are crazy.
They do fight all of the time.

I asked them about their dynamic once because it sorta confused me.
Cause they got in an epic fight and I left early one weekend and then they were totally fine again the following week. So since they were fine and laughing and joking and whatnot I asked them.
They're BOTH the Dom. I got them to acknowledge this by verbatim asking if that's what the case was.
They also both admitted that they get off on the fighting.

She was saying just spank me when he’s not looking and you was like excuse me… im not your behavioural manager, consult your husband.

Basically, yeah.

 

[Rohini]

They also both admitted that they get off on the fighting.

That is.....strange and foreign to me....


Are they in their early 20s?

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

That is.....strange and foreign to me....


Are they in their early 20s?

At the time, yes. This is all, like about 8 - 10 years back. I was too, just I'm only about 4 years older than them and I couldn't make head or tail out of it. Part of why they got married was to resolve their differences. I mean, kudos to them, because it kind of did, but that's because the baby came unexpectedly, sort of hijacked their lives, mortgage came into the picture, etc. Gotta give the man credit, he's doing it. She's quite a bit more humbled than what she was before. The PPD walloped the crap outta her, I know that much. That wasn't even supposed to happen though, and I'm glad she's alive and the kid's healthy and whatnot.

I took a large step back from them to let them settle down after the marriage.
Partially because she...gets kind of nervous that I can influence him.
But I don't influence him against her, I never have. She's got some trust issues, which was the other part of why I think they got married, to try to help with that.
But I mean, last I checked on them a couple years ago, they're doing fine, and I'm happy for them.
Kids just gotta stop bumping his head on the table.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

At the time, yes. This is all, like about 8 - 10 years back. I was too, just I'm only about 4 years older than them and I couldn't make head or tail out of it. Part of why they got married was to resolve their differences. I mean, kudos to them, because it kind of did, but that's because the baby came unexpectedly, sort of hijacked their lives, mortgage came into the picture, etc. Gotta give the man credit, he's doing it. She's quite a bit more humbled than what she was before. The PPD walloped the crap outta her, I know that much. That wasn't even supposed to happen though, and I'm glad she's alive and the kid's healthy and whatnot.

I took a large step back from them to let them settle down after the marriage.
Partially because she...gets kind of nervous that I can influence him.
But I don't influence him against her, I never have. She's got some trust issues, which was the other part of why I think they got married, to try to help with that.
But I mean, last I checked on them a couple years ago, they're doing fine, and I'm happy for them.
Kids just gotta stop bumping his head on the table.

I hate fighting but… i’ll milk it for all its worth thats for sure did someone say new shoes and roses?

 

[9006]

No not at all, although sometimes I show frustration that's about it. But I suppose it depends on who's "seeing" me, I'm more likely to wear my heart on my sleeve if it's family, or a partner.