Hi there Sivi. 16 should be a good age, so sad that it isn't very nice for too many of us.....wasn't for me. 16 is an age for learning the social skills and personal preferences and aptitudes that work for us....if anything at all is going wrong at 16, the sooner it's put right the better and the longer things aren't going right, the harder it is to fix.
Gosh, that sounds so patronizing.....sorry if it is.