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You know, the way it happens in the movies.

Is there any sure way to get that breathtaking romantic moment with a member of the opposite ***, or are some people just not meant to ever experience it??

Foe example, if you see someone you like, what's the best way to make them interested in you in a sexual way without coming over as creepy?

If anyone knows please tell me.
 
I'd like to know too, without someone trying to sell me an e-book. Lol.

What I do know is that you need to be confident and you need to make eye contact. And somewhere in there you have to appear naturally comfortable and at ease with yourself for them to be at ease around you.


I'm thinking it only happens in the movies. Or at least for us, it only happens in the movies :p
 
Ya, I think that just another one of those Hollywood over-dramatic portrayals. But I guess the best way to look bad *** is finding the right crowd, a crowd that would think your bad ***. Example: wearing really expensive clothing, and walking into a poor village in Africa. Sorry, that's probably a bad example.
 
I'm not really sure, one of my online friends used to read this one book on that matter, it seems to go by the philosophy of not chase but be chased, he was telling me about how it's just a game of controlling the whole relationship, to bait the other side to keep trying to "chase" you, and having a strong interest in you. I don't know what the book is called or anything or the details, as I'm not really that interested, but he seems to like it a lot and used to tell me about it.

It ends with the girl only wanting *** from him, which the book was about, and he ended with some weird awkward relationship where the girl isn't actually his gf, but was obsessed with him, he actually quite like the girl so the girl kind of "wins" in a way, as the book tell him he can't win if he's the one chasing, as the other side could turn the tide, he tried to find out whether the girl actually likes him or not, but it ends with them breaking up, there're probably some details missing.

Just a weird little story.
 
Crazy is the key word here.

Be careful what you ask for. Crazy is as crazy does.
 
Catalyst said:
Crazy is the key word here.
Be careful what you ask for. Crazy is as crazy does.

Good point! I wouldn`t want anybody to be crazy about me, God forbid! :my: I know there goes a lot of literature on this matter around, and maybe some of the tips really work, i.e. body language, mimics, gestures, eye contact, smile...but there`s far more to it than that (which looks more like a flirt or one-night-craziness lol :p). Communication, knowledge, common likes/dislikes, humour-oh yeah humour- looks (hair, clothes, scent, a.s.o), attitude (open hearted or rather mysterious, secretive) are all important. Chemistry as well. But IMHO there is no such thing as being crazy about someone, at least not on a long term perspective (in this case it would be rather an obsession). Besides, I don`t see the point of it. Isn`t it after all about being confident and honest with each other, feeling loved, important and precious to the other? I don`t know.... these would do for me..but then again, what do I know? It wouldn`t help me not a single bit, if I were crazy about someone or viceversa...but one-sided. Hm. Just a thought. :club:
 
Catalyst said:
Crazy is the key word here.

Be careful what you ask for. Crazy is as crazy does.

Oh my. The red text is suggesting to me that Catalyst has a story about this.
 

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