how the hell do you start a relationship

[SighX99]

How the hell do you start a relationship? it seems that no matter how many female friends i make, i can never be the boyfriend... it sucks. im always at that boundary. everytime some cool girl sits next to me, i have great conversation, but after class its PFFFFFFTTTT finished. nothing. nada. i dont even know how to start talking to her outside of class, or if she even wants to talk to me.

its like im invisible in school, no one cares about me, i cant be friends with anyone. i dont know why. i dont think im shy, i dont know. its the worst.

everyone i used to know now has a great ****** life, a boyfriend, a girlfriend, apartment, life, fun, awesomeness (**** yall btw)...me? im still ****** living with my lame fuckhead parents, lost my apartment, lost my job, ****** by my friends, now a poor *** student...

At least some of you have a boyfriend/girlfriend to complain about, me? i have no one, nothing to live for...

every girl i meet and want has a boyfriend, im so sick of being ****** lonely as **** all the time.

its always like this, a period of content with myself. i basically make myself feel alright by convincing myself everything is ok, being lonely is ok, being single is ok... but its ****** not. and i go back to crying like this again. ****


i have the worst ****** luck.
i ****** hate everyone around me. **** this...

 

[JustJones]

I know exactly how you feel. I've never had a gf and I'm just damn sick of it
I'm sorry I can't offer any advice as I have absolutely no clue about this stuff myself but at least you might find some comfort in knowing that you are not alone..
I'm trying out the "are you interested" app on facebook with very little luck so far but I have some hope. Maybe you could give it a try.
ps. I often find myself looking at couples holding hands/kissing etc and I just wanna run up and punch them both in the face. hehe, I don't think I'll ever do it but just thought I'd share that with you.

 

[PieBeNice]

Do what Borat did with that sack and Pamela Anderson, just steals one.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Start a metal band name....Kcuf siht tihs.

You have a cool ryhme going work on that...


I hate everyone **** this..
Awesumeness **** ya all BTW
I hate tofu **** that too

 

[Sodium]

You're not the only person.. Ive never had a boyfriend. It pisses me off when people ask me.. they get shocked and dont believe it when I say I dont have a BF.. they think I'm tryna act all secretive. Why would I lie?

I spend ages online, playing video games (yay), watching movies and stuff that according to my friends are "guy" things to do and no guy would want his girl to be like that. Thats how people think here.. Idiots. So sometimes I'm happy that I'm single cuz I dont wanna change who I am so that I'm more of a "girl" cuz I cant flirt with every guy I meet 24/7 and so **** that

SO you could just wait till you meet some one who likes you or go for the Borat way!
Yea I suck at giving advice!

 

[wadokai]

Sodium, you sound fine so don't worry (internet + games + movies = awesome lol)

Sighx99, just wanna let you know I share your pain. It truly sucks. I've gone through all my life with out a relationship and even now i have no one. It's so depressing. I wish you luck though.

 

[Brian]

I spend ages online, playing video games (yay), watching movies and stuff that according to my friends are "guy" things to do and no guy would want his girl to be like that.

..What is this? I don't even....
What the **** kind of *** backwards logic....

I am at a loss for words.

This does not happen very often. Savor the moment while I am stupefied.

 

[Jesse]

I spend ages online, playing video games (yay), watching movies and stuff that according to my friends are "guy" things to do and no guy would want his girl to be like that.

..What is this? I don't even....
What the **** kind of *** backwards logic....

I am at a loss for words.

This does not happen very often. Savor the moment while I am stupefied.

Haha, yes, now if only she lived close to me and was around my age lol.

 

[wannabeXL]

How the hell do you start a relationship? it seems that no matter how many female friends i make, i can never be the boyfriend... it sucks. im always at that boundary. everytime some cool girl sits next to me, i have great conversation, but after class its PFFFFFFTTTT finished. nothing. nada. i dont even know how to start talking to her outside of class, or if she even wants to talk to me.

That's weird. In my book a friend is someone you kind of talk to in and outside of class. Are you sure you're really friends with any of these girls or did you just have one great conversation with them?

A healthy relationship has to start with a real friendship. Make sure you approach a girl because you actually care about her and not because she's hot or because you desperately want a girlfriend. And you were wrong, there's nothing wrong with being single and being single doesn't equate being lonely. That singlehood means loserdom is just one big gigantic conspiracy theory you can seriously live without.

 

[Sodium]

I spend ages online, playing video games (yay), watching movies and stuff that according to my friends are "guy" things to do and no guy would want his girl to be like that.

..What is this? I don't even....
What the **** kind of *** backwards logic....

I am at a loss for words.

This does not happen very often. Savor the moment while I am stupefied.

Tell me about it..

You see.. Girls want to get married young here. When I turned 18 this girl kept bugging me about how I wasnt married yet.. I WAS ONLY 18! BACK OFF! YOU GO GET MARRIED...
A majority of the girls here are born to be housewives.. SO they spend their whole lives training (cooking, cleaning, etc) to be the perfect wife for some loser guy who doesnt even give a **** about you but just to reproduce and eat. And while theyre not cooking, theyre out looking for that one guy. So when I prefer staying at home to lvl my WoW character than go out all dressed up to walk around the mall for hours just to check out guys.. Im the weirdo. I've even been called lesbian.. :\

 

[Jesse]

Hey Sodium I play WoW! What server do you play on if I may ask?

 

[Sodium]

Hey Sodium I play WoW! What server do you play on if I may ask?

Shattered Halls EU. you?
I havent been playing for ages.. but Ive got all teh free time to play now.

 

[badaboom]

believe it or not, most people are not happy in relationships, even though that may not look like the case, trust me..lol

ive known people who i thought to be perfect in relationships, till something broke down, most people come to me for advice and they did and when i found out the problems they had really opened my eyes, this has happened with 5 couples +

the problem is most people dont love themselves and go in a relationship with self esteem issues, i think you should learn to love yourself before you can even accept the fact that someone else loves you

 

[Athiest #001]

believe it or not, most people are not happy in relationships, even though that may not look like the case, trust me..lol

ive known people who i thought to be perfect in relationships, till something broke down, most people come to me for advice and they did and when i found out the problems they had really opened my eyes, this has happened with 5 couples +

the problem is most people dont love themselves and go in a relationship with self esteem issues, i think you should learn to love yourself before you can even accept the fact that someone else loves you

Huh, so this is probably why I am screwed for life.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

believe it or not, most people are not happy in relationships, even though that may not look like the case, trust me..lol

ive known people who i thought to be perfect in relationships, till something broke down, most people come to me for advice and they did and when i found out the problems they had really opened my eyes, this has happened with 5 couples +

the problem is most people dont love themselves and go in a relationship with self esteem issues, i think you should learn to love yourself before you can even accept the fact that someone else loves you

Huh, so this is probably why I am screwed for life.

Well...that's kind of the idea...you get screwed one way or the other.
You're either doing the screwing or you're getting screwed

 

[VanillaCreme]

I spend ages online, playing video games (yay), watching movies and stuff that according to my friends are "guy" things to do and no guy would want his girl to be like that. Thats how people think here..

Well **** me. I'd be lost there. I can sit in front of a game console for days, and do nothing but play, bathroom breaks and food. In that order. I'd never get a guy there.

 

[SunWeb]

to SighX99

I am in your shoes )) ... or no ((
Even worse, i am older than you. you're still at school, and its not even over, then you'll have time in the university. So, this isn't bad situation for you. Go to the parties or whereever your classmates/schoolmates are going from time to time, and then you can meet someone and get a date.

to Sodium

You're one of the best options out there(in the world)

 

[Nyktimos]

I spend ages online, playing video games (yay), watching movies and stuff that according to my friends are "guy" things to do and no guy would want his girl to be like that. Thats how people think here..

Well **** me. I'd be lost there. I can sit in front of a game console for days, and do nothing but play, bathroom breaks and food. In that order. I'd never get a guy there.

You know, there's someone out there for everyone. As someone with serious trust issues who suffers from paranoid jealousy in a relationship when my girlfriend has too much of a life of her own (sad I know), a girlfriend who plays computer games all day would suit me fine. I'll make dinner and do the housework, do a little casual computer game playing myself, if she wants to sit and finger her joypad all day! It'll give me time to do my own things as well, instead of constantly having to find something to amuse her (a situation I'm currently in). So don't fret. It's about compatibility. Someone will have interests and needs compatible with yours.

 

[JustJones]

surely! isn't it every mans dream to have a girlfriend who enjoys those things! I wish my gf did!!

 

[Nyktimos]

surely! isn't it every mans dream to have a girlfriend who enjoys those things! I wish my gf did!!

After all, we're expected to take an unhealthy interest in shoes and soap operas!