I was obsessed with this person for like 5 months but she wasn't interested at all in me.
The problem is she still talked to me just to be polite so i always hoped that we could be friends, which didn't happen. We were highschool classmates but now highschool ended and i will only see her again a few times during exams and if we meet with our teacher after summer.
So i assume that i shouldn't talk to her at all in between these times but it's hard not to think about her and yesterday i wanted to text her because i thought maybe we could just chat sometimes. But it wouldn't be a good idea right?
Because i know she doesn't really like talking to me and i don't want to be that annoying person who won't leave others alone. I actually asked her directly why she didn't want to hang out with me anymore even though earlier she said the two of us and another friend should go to a museum, and she told me that she just doesn't get along with me.
So what now? I'm wondering, since she's just a name on the screen shouldn't i just try everything to talk to her and maybe she will talk to me or should i just try to never think about her when we don't see each other?
She talked to me at a party and it was the first time i felt seen, ever since i tried hard to change because i had a lot of anxiety and social anxiety and i wasn't talking to people. She had a big impact on my life and is a really great person, but just doesn't care about me.
Maybe i need some closure? Like asking her about how our relationship was and explain why i did certain things so i feel understood? Because everytime i see her i can't help but think that she doesn't want to talk to me because she said that we just don't get along, and it makes me feel rejected every time.
Anyway, honestly it feels a little better just to write all this down. I am eager to read your responses.
The problem is she still talked to me just to be polite so i always hoped that we could be friends, which didn't happen. We were highschool classmates but now highschool ended and i will only see her again a few times during exams and if we meet with our teacher after summer.
So i assume that i shouldn't talk to her at all in between these times but it's hard not to think about her and yesterday i wanted to text her because i thought maybe we could just chat sometimes. But it wouldn't be a good idea right?
Because i know she doesn't really like talking to me and i don't want to be that annoying person who won't leave others alone. I actually asked her directly why she didn't want to hang out with me anymore even though earlier she said the two of us and another friend should go to a museum, and she told me that she just doesn't get along with me.
So what now? I'm wondering, since she's just a name on the screen shouldn't i just try everything to talk to her and maybe she will talk to me or should i just try to never think about her when we don't see each other?
She talked to me at a party and it was the first time i felt seen, ever since i tried hard to change because i had a lot of anxiety and social anxiety and i wasn't talking to people. She had a big impact on my life and is a really great person, but just doesn't care about me.
Maybe i need some closure? Like asking her about how our relationship was and explain why i did certain things so i feel understood? Because everytime i see her i can't help but think that she doesn't want to talk to me because she said that we just don't get along, and it makes me feel rejected every time.
Anyway, honestly it feels a little better just to write all this down. I am eager to read your responses.