Here I am where I thought I’d never be. I am feeling a lot of pain right now so if I try to describe myself and the situation with my wife, in detail, it won’t be very nice. I am trying to dissect the situation piece by piece to find out if I am over-reacting or if what I am feeling is justified. Is it as bad as I think it is - is it “normal” – and can I cope without seeking a divorce or expecting one from my wife? Those are the question I am faced with. To be honest it seems to me that she is provoking me to make a separation/divorce “my choice”, if you know what I mean. Wish me luck, please.