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African_weasel said:
Contrary to the advice, I would keep contacting her. She might be in an abusive relationship. You could save her life. Just saying.

That would just make him into a creepy stalker. Then she'd be dealing with two problems instead of just her boyfriend. Not sure how that would save her life.
 
African_weasel said:
Hey, I take risks. He can do whatever he wants.

I wouldn't exactly call what you've said taking risks... I don't even know what to call it.
 
I understand the overall desire, African_weasel, with making sure she will be okay. But, rather than guns ablazin' barrelling in to save a damsel... Another approach can definitely be taken, to ensure she KNOWS she can get help, especially if she finds herself physically, verbally or mentally abused. However that being said... I did know a very... Angry... Man who came after my friend's new boyfriend, because he was jealous and felt he OWNED her. Those people, can be very unpredictable and dangerous.
 
If she and the boyfriend had broken up, that means she was out of it. She decided to go back into it. That was her choice. No one can save her from that.
 
Senamian said:
I understand the overall desire, African_weasel, with making sure she will be okay. But, rather than guns ablazin' barrelling in to save a damsel... Another approach can definitely be taken, to ensure she KNOWS she can get help, especially if she finds herself physically, verbally or mentally abused. However that being said... I did know a very... Angry... Man who came after my friend's new boyfriend, because he was jealous and felt he OWNED her. Those people, can be very unpredictable and dangerous.

That's some scary ****.
 
Yes, it is. Though chivalry and courage should never die... Thinking rationally can mean a world of difference for anyone. Tie the two together, you'd be amazed what you can do, without even physically intervening.
 
She's not a damsel in distress brother....she knew exactly what she was doing...she's back with her possessive boyfriend and she's happier than a penguin in a microwave.

She knew what she was doing...which was playing secretlycandians emotions like a piano. Using you as a piece of meat. To hell with her...move on boss. You don't want sloppy seconds after that pushy jerk-off do you?

Trust me...he probably treats her like crap and she loves it...why else would she need you to make him jealous???
 

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