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Marik_757

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Don't know how to put it in words but this picture below pretty much explains everything...

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haha, great picture man,

I'm sorry that's happening to you

*hugs*

you're not alone in this, this happens to every guy,

even docters

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It can work against u or for you.

Its actually heahtly to have plutonic relationship. It helps u to be more relax or comfortiable around the opposite sex. And u can ask questions about the opposite sex. Its actaully intimatcy ..now to be confused with sex or romance.

Tensions comes in when theyre expectations or u spend too much time with ur plutonic relationship.
It aslo gives the impression that ur a couple by other people.

To break away ..there will be some level of discomfort from each party becuz changes requires adapting.
@ which piont u will also know what ur plutonic friend true intentions are
which is ok. Whatever the chip may land.
So simply just spend less time with them. Instead of barking up the wrong treee.Then seek lovers and state what ur true intensions are from the get go....If u get rejected again N again during the process..thats what firends r for.

I have plenty of female friends just as I have male friends.
 
i think this other scrubs clip will also help

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because even if it breaks your heart to be just friends, if you really care about someone you'll take the hit

i don't know if that helps or not, but point being hang in there man, and scrubs has the answer for everything


:)
 
What does the cloud represent?

Jump for the cloud, it looks like a pretty cool guy.
 
That cloud will descend to his level and prevent him from falling freely into the pit. Then it will carry him beyond that relationship mark and into the sky, where a different kind of happiness can be enjoyed temporarily. At the end of that ride in the clouds, he will be sent back down. Unfortunately, he'll land in a green pipe with no option to backtrack to the cliff where the relationship exists. When he exits the green pipe, he will be in a new world called A Lonely Life.
 
Marik_757 said:
Don't know how to put it in words but this picture below pretty much explains everything...

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I saw your picture, and you look great. Your clothes are very interesting.

How's your confidence level?

I just saw your post about social awkwardness. That's why. Work on your confidence. That's very attractive to women. You may no change overnight, but you can learn to be more confident.
 
Thanks everyone for your comments!

Mary Mary said:
Marik_757 said:
Don't know how to put it in words but this picture below pretty much explains everything...

142vvbc.png


I saw your picture, and you look great. Your clothes are very interesting.

How's your confidence level?

I just saw your post about social awkwardness. That's why. Work on your confidence. That's very attractive to women. You may no change overnight, but you can learn to be more confident.



I get out and hang with some friends of the opposite sex. Going to partys and stuff, so far it's been a great boost to my confidence. I always put myself in a engaged mode, where if I want something to happen or want to talk with someone I must react with 5 seconds. That way I don't let the nervousness settle in. I rather take chances than not take a chance at all... But even with the chances its like people don't notice my attempts or the moves I make ... blah idk
 
I just looked at your pic. Didn't know you were black. You have nice arms. Nice and muscular. Keep working out.

However, you have two problems. One is, you're balding. Luckily you can just shave it ALL the way off. Suction it off. Have nothing but a shiny brown head.

Next, you are POUTING like **** in your pic. Your body language is TERRIBLE. I could see that if you displayed the kinda body language around a girl that you display in the pic why they would be TOTALLY turned off.

I have a couple other questions I will PM you.
 
SocratesX said:
I just looked at your pic. Didn't know you were black. You have nice arms. Nice and muscular. Keep working out.

However, you have two problems. One is, you're balding. Luckily you can just shave it ALL the way off. Suction it off. Have nothing but a shiny brown head.

Next, you are POUTING like **** in your pic. Your body language is TERRIBLE. I could see that if you displayed the kinda body language around a girl that you display in the pic why they would be TOTALLY turned off.

I have a couple other questions I will PM you.

You crack me up. I can't imagine what you're saying to him in private.

 
Marik don't get too stressed about the balding. I have always had a thing fot YOUNG guys balding, lol and sahving it all also works. Many women don't mind those that do are vein and best left alone as they are more trouble than their worth. I really don't get the balding issue*shrugs*. I think you look good in your photo's, Socrates has this idea that you HAVE to be a douchbag to get the gal. That is a load of #¤§%. Problem is some females don't wanna go from friend status to more because they are afraid they will loose your friendship if things go wrong. Best way to fix that problem is to avoid friend mode, if you meet a girl you wanna date.
 
Ladysphinx said:
Marik don't get too stressed about the balding. I have always had a thing fot YOUNG guys balding, lol and sahving it all also works. Many women don't mind those that do are vein and best left alone as they are more trouble than their worth. I really don't get the balding issue*shrugs*. I think you look good in your photo's, Socrates has this idea that you HAVE to be a douchbag to get the gal. That is a load of #¤§%. Problem is some females don't wanna go from friend status to more because they are afraid they will loose your friendship if things go wrong. Best way to fix that problem is to avoid friend mode, if you meet a girl you wanna date.

You are putting words in my mouth.

Anyway, alot of the bodybuilders I know have shaved heads, so you might as well.

Also, LadySphinx, did you see the pic he posted? His body language and pouty expression he had on was dreadful.
 
Ladysphinx said:
Marik don't get too stressed about the balding. I have always had a thing fot YOUNG guys balding, lol and sahving it all also works. Many women don't mind those that do are vein and best left alone as they are more trouble than their worth. I really don't get the balding issue*shrugs*. I think you look good in your photo's, Socrates has this idea that you HAVE to be a douchbag to get the gal. That is a load of #¤§%. Problem is some females don't wanna go from friend status to more because they are afraid they will loose your friendship if things go wrong. Best way to fix that problem is to avoid friend mode, if you meet a girl you wanna date.

I agree with that.

 
Mary Mary said:
Ladysphinx said:
Marik don't get too stressed about the balding. I have always had a thing fot YOUNG guys balding, lol and sahving it all also works. Many women don't mind those that do are vein and best left alone as they are more trouble than their worth. I really don't get the balding issue*shrugs*. I think you look good in your photo's, Socrates has this idea that you HAVE to be a douchbag to get the gal. That is a load of #¤§%. Problem is some females don't wanna go from friend status to more because they are afraid they will loose your friendship if things go wrong. Best way to fix that problem is to avoid friend mode, if you meet a girl you wanna date.

I agree with that.

mode 1 behavior
 
SocratesX said:
Mary Mary said:
Ladysphinx said:
Marik don't get too stressed about the balding. I have always had a thing fot YOUNG guys balding, lol and sahving it all also works. Many women don't mind those that do are vein and best left alone as they are more trouble than their worth. I really don't get the balding issue*shrugs*. I think you look good in your photo's, Socrates has this idea that you HAVE to be a douchbag to get the gal. That is a load of #¤§%. Problem is some females don't wanna go from friend status to more because they are afraid they will loose your friendship if things go wrong. Best way to fix that problem is to avoid friend mode, if you meet a girl you wanna date.

I agree with that.

mode 1 behavior

What's mode 1?




I was reading about "mode 1". I didn't take Ladysphinx literally in that you should ask a girl right away for a date but that approaching women as a friend was probably why he kept getting stuck there.
 
My piece of advice would be to jump up and down on the friendship ledge and look for invisible coin blocks which could serve as a bridge to the relationship zone. Failing that if you had a spring board you could possibly make the jump. With Yoshi could jump off his back and leave him to die, but it will allow you to reach the other side from the added momentum.

Additionally be on the look out for horizontal moving floaty bridges on the screen behind you, they might be there to deliver you to the end zone.
 

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