I feel like a lepper.

[msbxa]

Interesting topic.
I find it interesting, a bit strange and yet sort of funny how people will do stuff like this. That is, talk to you at one moment then decide to ignore you the next. It makes me think that these kinds of people, even though they may appear to be well adjusted or whatever, are maybe really just fake, insecure, or possibly just scared.
Also little things like that, like just not accepting a harmless friend request I think may say something about his character... However, facebook is a strange place. The way people are on there is often not the way they are in real life. Its not a very good place, in my opinion. Maybe he has his reasons not to want to get involved with people on there.
If you re now talking to him, perhaps you could ask him: I sent you a friend request,, did you get it? (If you don't think you will be upset too much by the outcome). Or you could ask him: what do you think of facebook? Then later: I sent you a friend request on there did you get it?

 

[duff]

Everyone faces rejection in life, even the pretty people.

I've had sort of a bus buddy for a while, been talking to him regularly, started liking him more, the more I talked to him. I asked if I could send him a friend request. I sent him a friend request. Lately he has been avoiding me. Note, I did not ask him for coffee, I did not ask for his number, I did not ask him out. All I did was ask him if he took a vacation after I haven't seen him on the bus for a week, listen to him talk about his weekend trip and then send him a face book friend request. Oh my gosh, the nerve of me to even only slightly suggest a friendship outside of the bus. I must totally creep him out.

Sorry for sounding like a loser. Just wanted to vent. Thanks.

don't feel too bad, you could be me !

I went to a meeting today at work and now people are writing jokes about me on facebook. How lovely !