I feel so lonely :'(

[Guest]

My girlfriend is losing her love for me. We've been together for more than a year and I love her so much. I dont want to lose her, she's the world to me and I would be lost without her. I tell her I love her every day and I feel like I'm being a good boyfriend. I'm always thinking about her and when she calls me I get so happy it's unexplainable. I wish there was a magic word to to say to her to make her love me back just as much. It hurts so bad. If she leaves me for good I don't know what I will do, she said she would call me later tonight but she might not. Without her I have nothing to lose. I need her in my life and if she leaves me I will choose a job that puts my life in great risk just so there's a chance I can end the hurt.... :'(

I just want someone to talk to. I'm so lonely and sad, I need someone to talk to. Please will someone help me

 

[mink]

What makes you think she's losing her love for you? Or did something happen to cause this? Well talk it out here, there could be some people on here who are pretty good on dealing with relationships

 

[Guest]

First of all, it's irrational to think that she'll leave you if there's no basis for the fear. If she does, then there's no use thinking about it. Second of all, people lose their loves all the time, and yes it really hurts at first, but time really does heal everything. I've never had my heart broken but I broke my ex gf's heart. I saw her on friday for the first time in 4 years. She said that she thought she was gonna die when I broke up with her but eventually she got over it and now she's married. She said, "yeah, I think things do really happen for a reason and if you hadn't broken up with me I wouldn't be where I'm at in life right now". So, you never know what's going to happen but even if she does break up with you there's a chance you'll find an even greater opportunity to date someone in the future. I hope this helps. I'm not gonna say "don't worry, she won't leave you" because there's always a chance that she will. No matter who we are with, they are always in control of whether they want to be with us or not. People in our life can go in a split second. That's why I've tried so hard not to be dependent on a girl. Just take one day at a time, and if it helps, tell her how much you care about her. The one thing I regret in my past relationships is not communicating well enough. If you communicate your hopes/fears, then at least she'll know where you stand.

 

[mink]

Second of all, people lose their loves all the time, and yes it really hurts at first, but time really does heal everything.

That's true.

She said, "yeah, I think things do really happen for a reason and if you hadn't broken up with me I wouldn't be where I'm at in life right now". So, you never know what's going to happen but even if she does break up with you there's a chance you'll find an even greater opportunity to date someone in the future.

I believe so too, that things happen for a reason.

Cheer up, Guest 1. Hope things work out