i hate girls...

[silverblackvoid_ll]

or maybe i cant understand them. they are so selfish and complex and materialistic that i cant stand them. im yet to find a girl who is transcendental mentally and spiritually. they ought to know that nothing is permanent. permanence is just an illusion craved by the fools. well this doesn't apply for all the girls in the world and i know that im imperfect myself. but atleast i know it. but hardcore chicks are a rare breed.

 

[Naleena]

Silverblackvoid,
If there is one thing I have learned in this life it is that at any given time, everyone is on a different level of learning and being. Yes, some girls are materialistic. that's where they are in their life right now. Hopefully they will learn that everything is fleeting -money, power, friendships, whatever.

We all have some sort of ingnorance about us...lol If we didn't we wouldn't be here. I guess I have learned to be patient with some people and try to see thier potiential instaed of where they are right now in their life. Ofcorse that doesn't work when looking for a significant other because (in my opinion) a person needs someone who is like them.

And it's not just girls that are selfish **giggles**
Permanance is an illusion but, it's craved by a lot of people who want it to feel safe. I like having a structured life for the most part. Familiarity can be a good thing : )

I wonder where you are going to meet girls? If you are drawn to a more free flow life, perhaps you could try to meet girls in places that are more inclined to the way you believe. There are newage books, volunteer organisations, spiritual houses, etc.

There is a girl out there for you, I am sure

 

[silverblackvoid_ll]

well you're right. but girls like you are hard to find in the real world

 

[iwasaloverb4thiswar]

If there is one thing I have learned in this life it is that at any given time, everyone is on a different level of learning and being.

Thank you Nals, a hundred hugs and kisses for that
I think there are plenty of males that are just as caught up and mislead as there are females, because in the end, its not a matter of being male or female, but just human. We all have our lessons to learn and our misconceptions to break through. I find the best thing is to just do what fits you and you will find yourself in an environment and with people who share like philosophies. Stop lamenting what is lacking in people and start celebrating what they do offer and you will find that they may have more to them than you think, we are all capable of amazing things.

 

[Naleena]

because in the end, its not a matter of being male or female, but just human.

I really liked the way you put that.

 

[Rebel001]

Some people are consious that materialism isnt everything, some people arent. And some people realize that there are better things out there and more important things.
but then again all people are different, and have different priorities in life and are okay with that.

All people are different..and sometimes you have to meet the "wrong" people, to be able to know who the "right" people are. Everyone has a different sense on what is "right" and "wrong" for them, so its up to you to choose..

Does that make any sense at all? :S

 

[Unacceptance]

Hate girls, love women.

 

[Qui]

Hate girls, love women.

lol, jailbait = bad.

 

[MountainTop]

I love girls..... if only they loved me back.... *tear*

 

[Papabear]

I think that most women have a hard time knowing exactly what they want. It's rare (and so comforting) when you get to be with one that does because suddenly that whole "OMG WOMEN ARE CRAZY AND CONFUSING" feeling actually goes away...

 

[PoisonFlowers]

in the end, its not a matter of being male or female, but just human.

Damn, you got there before me Exactly what I was going to say.

Superficiality is everywhere and it actually makes me feel physically sick. I get an empty feeling in the pit of my stomach; in my skull; because it's as if there's nothing else to live for anymore. I think it's because I'm finding it hard to really care about anything nowadays (apart from music and at one point, even that faltered) and when I'm surrounded by all this emptiness, all this materialism...I don't know, but I hate it. Always have.

That was a bit off topic, sorry. I just feel that it's not girls, it's the whole human race which is caught up in this illusion sometimes and it makes me feel so lost.

 

[cheaptrickfan]

I just feel that it's not girls, it's the whole human race which is caught up in this illusion sometimes and it makes me feel so lost.

YES.

 

[Samuel]

As stated in the 3 second rule thread, there is an increasing number of different personalities. And therefore it is getting, supposedly harder to be able to communicate with others without the feeling of I am the odd one out, it is my problem.

Alot of this I think comes from the amount of variety we have in our world today. Materialism, marketing, want want want, buy buy buy. Alot of masks being worn.

I would love just to live simply on a farm and grow my own food

 

[PoisonFlowers]

I would love just to live simply on a farm and grow my own food

I've had that dream since forever People think I'm strange, but to me that would be ideal.

 

[packyourbags]

I would love just to live simply on a farm and grow my own food

I've had that dream since forever People think I'm strange, but to me that would be ideal.

mine too, actually ^___^

 

[PoisonFlowers]

I would love just to live simply on a farm and grow my own food

I've had that dream since forever People think I'm strange, but to me that would be ideal.

mine too, actually ^___^

Yay! We should all get a farm together or something lol. Just go there and chillax.

 

[luvaccused]

Hi Dear,
you are right as you said but everyone have their own experiences but on the basis of these experiences, we can not blame on all girl.

My ex wife was same type as you describe in form why u hate girl. i m also suffering from lot of metal & emotional pain because of my sweet ex wife as she aborted my two unborn child and falsely convicted me in criminal case.i m 29 year old she was only girl in my life & i was thinking her my dream girl & life partner as i was looking for, but after all that for some money & ego she done all this stupid & destroyed my life as well as her life but due to mistake of my wife i cant hate all girls. now i am thinking & praying god for a new girl who will give me too much love so that i forget all this pain.because woman is a symbol of love & affection.

So we should not hate hole community on the basis of one.[/b]
[/b] Because Love Is life

 

[Mr. Sir]

I think I know what your problem is.

 

[LGH1288]

Hi Dear, you are right as you said but everyone have their own experiences but on the basis of these experiences, we can not blame on all girl.

My ex wife was same type as you describe in form why u hate girl. i m also suffering from lot of metal & emotional pain because of my sweet ex wife as she aborted my two unborn child and falsely convicted me in criminal case.i m 29 year old she was only girl in my life & i was thinking her my dream girl & life partner as i was looking for, but after all that for some money & ego she done all this stupid & destroyed my life as well as her life but due to mistake of my wife i cant hate all girls. now i am thinking & praying god for a new girl who will give me too much love so that i forget all this pain. because woman is a symbol of love & affection. So we should not hate hole community on the basis of one.

Because Love Is life

Hello luvaccused -- I don't think I'm the girl who will give you the love you want but maybe I will be the friend you need. I was very impressed by your attitude because you did not become bitter and hateful against all women even though you were hurt so deeply by one. For that you have earned my respect. Also, if you would care to share, were you convicted in a court of law? If yes, what was the crime? Were you incarcerated? If yes, have you completed your sentence? I'd like to continue this discussion but I need to know your situation. LG

 

[luvaccused]

Hi LGH1288,
Thanx for your reply & accept me as friend, She filled false DV act. & other criminal cases only for handsome settlements but she don't know that handsome is well settled. trail is going on i have all evidence to prove my innocence. But i cant forgot my past. My love & affection toward my wife & unborn child whom she aborted.It will take time to get out this pain.

Thanks for accept me as a friend again.