i need some advice

[chi]

well, i am a male, in HS atm and i used to have a lot of friends in elementary school but they all sort of faded once highschool came around. i dont know why, i just couldnt bring myself to contact them or to interact with them.. and they never seemed to care about me either. im hoping that when i go back to school this year i will be a little more outgoing and proactive, but i need some advice on a specific situation that happened 2 days ago..

my brother was at the park and he saw my ex-friend there. and, according to him, my ex-friend (who is a girl) told him that she thought i was a "loner and a queer" and that she tried to get rid of me last year. apparently, she thinks i stalked her too, which is totally not true. so when i asked her on msn if she told my brother this she said "haha ya i said it as a joke". but, im not sure whether to believe her or not, because in the past she has tried to ignore me (i have no ******* idea why). anyways, im wondering, what should i do here? should i just give up on trying to rekindle a friendship with her? should i go on msn and talk to her about it some more? or should i wait until school starts to talk to her about it, and see if she ignores me?

thanks in advance

 

[keeper]

Hi chi,
This girl doesn't seem to be a true friend. If I was in your place I would just ignore her and look for new friends.
Good luck!

 

[angeLLblueshadow]

you can always try to talk to her some more when the school starts, but i agree with keeper, she doesn't seem like a true friend...
hope i could help!

 

[Eyael]

Hi chi...

That's exactly what happened to me, and I just had to forget it the hard way =S. I wish you the best of luck, talk to me if you feel like it.

 

[Janus]

Have nothing more to do with her, she sounds like poison.

 

[lonelygirl]

Hmm the problem is that people can sense desperation...sometimes the more you want something the more you have to walk AWAY from it...just call her up say look i would love to be friends and if you want to call me sometime, hugs, bye...don't make it a big deal or freak her out.

Don't let the Evil One's barbs hurt you!