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well, i am a male, in HS atm and i used to have a lot of friends in elementary school but they all sort of faded once highschool came around. i dont know why, i just couldnt bring myself to contact them or to interact with them.. and they never seemed to care about me either. im hoping that when i go back to school this year i will be a little more outgoing and proactive, but i need some advice on a specific situation that happened 2 days ago..

my brother was at the park and he saw my ex-friend there. and, according to him, my ex-friend (who is a girl) told him that she thought i was a "loner and a queer" and that she tried to get rid of me last year. apparently, she thinks i stalked her too, which is totally not true. so when i asked her on msn if she told my brother this she said "haha ya :p i said it as a joke". but, im not sure whether to believe her or not, because in the past she has tried to ignore me (i have no ******* idea why). anyways, im wondering, what should i do here? should i just give up on trying to rekindle a friendship with her? should i go on msn and talk to her about it some more? or should i wait until school starts to talk to her about it, and see if she ignores me?

thanks in advance
 
Hi chi,
This girl doesn't seem to be a true friend. If I was in your place I would just ignore her and look for new friends.
Good luck!
 
you can always try to talk to her some more when the school starts, but i agree with keeper, she doesn't seem like a true friend...
hope i could help!
 
Hi chi...

That's exactly what happened to me, and I just had to forget it the hard way =S. I wish you the best of luck, talk to me if you feel like it.
 
Hmm the problem is that people can sense desperation...sometimes the more you want something the more you have to walk AWAY from it...just call her up say look i would love to be friends and if you want to call me sometime, hugs, bye...don't make it a big deal or freak her out.

Don't let the Evil One's barbs hurt you!
 

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