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I know this may be unpopular with the females, but...
Unless a violent crime is involved, females 100% make the decision to have sex.
A law abiding male is completely dependent upon a female saying yes.
Given the above, there are ABSOLUTELY circumstances where a male is "involuntarily celibate" because no female is receptive towards him.
I am not saying females don't experience misery in life.
Just saying this particular misery dwells within the male realm.
There are women who would struggle to find partners - so called femcels / foreveralone women - but only a vanishingly tiny percentage would struggle to find sex or some friends with benefits type arrangement.

And that's why there are times as many older virgin men than women.
 
There are women who would struggle to find partners - so called femcels / foreveralone women -
I agree but for them I truly do believe the issue is "pickiness".
I ROUTINELY see on a daily basis women I consider grotesquely obese with normally built, regular guys.
The overwhelming majority of females can "get a guy" if they really want.
Not true for very many males.


EDIT:
Not including myself in the above.
I KNOW I am messed up in the head and far outside the parameters of this discussion.
 
So my issue yesterday wasn't a lack of coffee, it was the beginning stages of a migraine. I looked at my post yesterday afternoon and I can honestly say I don't even remember posting it. I was very confused.
Anyway, I think I was partially confusing you with someone else, because now that I can almost think straight (still have a bit of after effects of the migraine), I don't really know what your issues are. I believe you've said you don't have any particular preference for women, therefore you try all types of women and don't really get anywhere (is this correct?). While I do think you can fool yourself into thinking you project positivity, I don't know if the vibe you give off is your issue, but I also don't really think your looks are the issue. You are a conundrum to me. I don't know what you look like, so I can't really say if it's your looks, but I seriously doubt that, because SOMEONE would have given you a chance, IMO. So i think without actually knowing you better or seeing you in person and how you navigate day to day situations, I can't really give you any concrete opinion about what the issue is. I can only think you're not giving us all the information. That isn't meant to be offensive and I'm not calling you a liar, we all hold things back online or don't realize we do certain things so we won't mention them because we aren't aware of them.
That is correct, I do not have any particular physical preferences for women, I have liked women of all shapes, sizes & backgrounds. My only hard-line is that I won't date someone with children, but given that being childfree is exploding in popularity within my generation and younger, I don't consider that an obstacle that's impossible to surmount.

It's hard for me to sit here and try to convince people that I don't project negative vibes. All I can say is that I find it very easy to make friends, and people like being around me, so I have to assume my personality isn't THAT awful and that I must be on some level a positive person to be around. I don't believe I'm holding back information on you, if there is anything you'd like to know, please ask.
 

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