Is She Flirting? What do I do?

[Spare]

Hmn well I guess that's true. She wants to go to another strip club. Maybe I'll go again and drink a lot.

Don't drink TOO much; that could be worse than not drinking at all!

 

[Jesse]

Hmn well I guess that's true. She wants to go to another strip club. Maybe I'll go again and drink a lot.

Don't drink TOO much; that could be worse than not drinking at all!

What do you mean Spare?

 

[Jesse]

Thanks for tips everybody. Will let you all know what happens.

 

[Spare]

Well, I've never been too keen a fan of drinking myself. I prefer to keep all my faculties fully intact and at my disposal. Not that I'm saying you shouldn't have a few drinks; I'd be tempted myself if I were in your position. But I've known people who drink so much that they completely change while inebriated, and not always for the best. A person can never be too sure how they're going to behave when they're good and hammered. A sloppy drunk can be a real turn-off, and could potentially drive a woman away.

Take everything I say with a grain of salt; you've already gotten farther with this girl than I've ever gotten with anybody, so I'm not necessarily the most knowledgeable of resources.

 

[Jesse]

Ah ok. Yeah if something happens I'd like to at least remember it this time. I don't want another New Year's to happen.

 

[luciddisconnect]

Well, Jesse. If you really like the girl you could try just cutting through the ******** of "making a move" and say something to the effect of "I'm totally into you, OK, so what do you think about that?" And if she responds positively then kiss her and situation resolved.

Of course whatever you do you're either putting yourself on the line or you're letting yourself down. Such is the trouble with being the male.

 

[Jesse]

Haha yeah. Sucks. I'm thinking I'm going to not do anything and just be her friend. It's just too much for me otherwise. It's not a big deal.

 

[Jesse]

Well I was out with this girl tonight. I think she may just want me for my man-goods. She was talking about different sexual things and I certainly didn't know how to react. I think I've decided I don't really like her though. I think it's just physical attraction, and that's not what I'm looking for. I need there to be a good connection with someone. She's still cool to hang out with and I think we'll keep doing that but nothing more than just friends. It's ok with me