Let's get to know each other ^o^b

[Caroline]

Hey everybody. I really like it here in the forum, and just recently started hanging out in the chatroom. It's fun, talking about the most randomest things. O.O;; I wanna feel like I've made friends here, so...that's why I made this thread? ^__^!! I bet everyone is asleep right now anyway, but that's ok. I'll wait for replies tomorrow o.o;; because I KNOW you guys wouldn't leave me hanging, right? ;D

 

[Shogun]

I'm gonna be awake all night. I'm nocturnal, plus I'm trying to plan it so I'm awake this time tomorrow cause there's a big MMA fight on that I really wanna see.

 

[Caroline]

I'm actually trying to go to sleep right now, but it's not working. :\

 

[mintymint]

How do we get to know each other? o.o

 

[oarivan]

I would but getting to know you would mean jail time.

 

[Caroline]

idk, let's just talk randomly until something cool comes up. ;;
and lol, jail time... >.>

 

[Badjedidude]

He means underage sex, Caroline. Nothing cute like spending days together in the countay slamma. (hehe)

And I hold to the belief that you don't know anyone until you've shed blood with them. We gettin' together to go pick some fights or sumtin?

 

[Caroline]

shedding blood sounds like fun :} and lol, sex has nothing to do with this thread, joking or not o.o;; I just want some fwends... ;~;

 

[Badjedidude]

o_o I wasn't saying that sex had anything to do with this thread.

But it COULD!

Anyway, I'm talking now, so what the hell else do ya want from me? o_o lulz

You'd shed blood with me? Ya sound like a tough girl. Are you?

 

[Caroline]

I'd say yes, but that would only count for my personality. I'm not sure if I'm physically tough. x) you see, in real life, I never stir up problems that would cause violence. Although I'm not one for peace either, I prefer NOT to give someone a chance to kick my ass. ^x^;;

 

[Badjedidude]

Personally, I avoid fights when I can, but once one starts... it's GONNA END with me victorious. FOR I AM MAN!!! lulz

I guess the gist of what I'm saying is that I have a somewhat aggressive nature also, and I tend to solve my problems by charging into them headfirst or with my fists. Not the most diplomatic way to go through life, I suppose, but it gets the job done for me. And I see challenges (including fights) as a way to get stronger.

Well, lookie here! We're learning about each other already!

 

[Caroline]

Aggressive is good sometimes. I've never gotten into a fight though, and I rarely get into arguments. O.O;; I'm not very confrontational, but that's because no one has ever had a problem with me. I have yet to experience so many things though, being only 16 >x) I'm almost excited about growing up, but right now I'm stuck in a rut that I'd rather not be in. >__>

 

[Badjedidude]

Awww well you have plenty of time to experience fights, I guarantee it. I dunno if you'd enjoy a physical fight so much... because they really aren't for everyone! But it can be really nice to cut loose and just yell at someone a bit. Just try to do it at someone who deserves it. People tend to frown upon being shouted at for no reason.

It's good to be excited about growing up! HOLD ON TO THAT ATTITUUUUUDE!

What rut are you stuck in, if I may ask?

 

[Caroline]

I basically let 2 sets of friends go and now I have nobody. My school friends I let go, cuz they were all horrible to me in their own way. After that, I only hung out with my then boyfriend, and HIS group of friends. But after we broke up, I let them all go. I basically blocked them from my life in every way possible. Now I have no friends, but since I'm transferring schools anyway, it's not a big deal. Except that my personality NEEDS to have friends, attention, people to talk to, and hang out with, etc. And I also have summer school to deal with, but that starts on the 6th.

....I know that these problems of mine might not seem like a big deal (compared to what everybody else's problems are), but this is the magnitude of a 16 year old girl's problems for now. >.<!!!

 

[oarivan]

....I know that these problems of mine might not seem like a big deal (compared to what everybody else's problems are), but this is the magnitude of a 16 year old girl's problems for now. >.<!!!

haha I'm glad you stated that.

Since you're 16 and friendly I'm sure you won't have any trouble finding new friends. Just make sure you get the right kinda friends this time around. Ask them to fill a questionnaire.

 

[Badjedidude]

Actually, that doesn't sound too different from my own "rut" at the moment. Right now I'm finishing my degree at my university (I graduate in December 2010)...and there's just too much going on for me to focus on getting a girlfriend. I'd like to have a girlfriend, but honestly, I just can't take the time or effort to pursue a romance right now...because I know that romances tend to end up being time-consuming and distracting. I don't need anything ruining my 5 years of work, so I'm putting off any pursuits of relationships until next year.

Yeah, it doesn't sound like much of a rut, I know. And most days it isn't that bad to deal with. But every once in a while, it hits me that I don't have someone like that, and that I won't have for another half a year. It seems like a long stretch of road ahead.

So the best I can do is just face each day on its own and realize that my rut will come to its end.

I hope the same goes for you!

 

[Caroline]

Yeah, it seems like we both have to wait for what we want. -A-;; I can try to make friends during the summer, but since I'll have summer school, I'd rather stay focused on that so I can do my work without distractions. And lol, oarivan, I can't have them fill a questionnaire. XD although that would make things easier. (d)

 

[oarivan]

Waiting is fine. I'm waiting until I finally get out of Uni, get a job and find my own place with running hot water.

Then imma go for all the hookers and ice cream I can buy!

 

[Badjedidude]

YESSSSS ice cream and hookers!

 

[Caroline]

XD!!