lonely, alone, and miserable

[blindsided]

why does everyone say 'it'll be fine' ?? or "just give it time' ?? why does everyone forget the misery of being alone?? maybe its a defense, forget it and it didnt happen........ maybe its my fault for building my life around her.......
anyway, here i am, looking for friends, company, understanding, maybe attention, maybe advice.........

 

[JJW]

No advice. We don't the know issue. But the affirmations people have offered aren't wrong. It just hurts to get to them.

 

[blindsided]

sure, everyone means well, but they really have no clue. useless platitudes are just that, useless.
no point in being rude, they mean well, but they are not helping.

 

[vauxhallastra]

I'd recommend you read a book called 'Eleanor Rigby' by Douglas Coupland, if you haven't read it.