Lost love

[Andreita00]

My husband is more annoyed by me than ever. Yes know wives nag and complain all the time. But all I want is for him to love me, to show me off, to be proud of me be, passionate about me. He used to be that kind man then I guess something started to change to fade. I understand that might have put on some weight, I feel like it's my fault that I should work harder at leasing weight to make love like we start out. I die for attention sometimes I don't know why I find myself stairing at strangers hope that they look back at me. I adore my husband and just want him to feel the same way.[/php]

 

[AFrozenSoul]

So you are saying you are not the same woman you used to be when he first married you? You are allowed to change, but he is not? That is what I am hearing here.

You have identified the problem, have you confirmed it with him? What good is thinking about this going to do for you? Why not talk to him?

 

[Monster]

Having some insight from being once in a long term relationship. I can tell you that yes appearances are important, especialy in the views of a man. Over time in a relationship, looks can get dull day by day. So try to change things like your hairstyle and even improve on your weight gain. I know I may sound like a jerk by being blunt or frank on the situation, but one must be bold and clear on the facts to better help the solution. By letting your weight go, it shows that you don't care for yourself and him by not keeping up with your healthy appearance. There are also other things that can be contributing to his lack of attention and apperciation, but dullness and unhealthy appearances are the most natural reasons for this cause. Hope this helps.