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0mgofhappiness

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I suppose if he wants to play you, he isn't going to tell you the truth,but you someone know he is. he was testing how long he could play me for,make the same decisions. Keep going back to him.

Now, he seems to have discussed with a female that they no longer enjoy their game. Now I am left alone, after another chance, another chance and another chance. It's strange.maybe he got another woman pregnant I haven't seen him for 9 months.

There is a woman in the background when he speaks to me on the phone.

Why can people like myself because such a tool in someone else's box! Why have I fallen for it. Again.
 
Go seek a mental health professional.
I'm sorry if this may have sounded a little harsh, but what I meant was that this forum may not be effective enough for the way you are hurting at the moment. You need to sit and talk to someone in person, someone who can gauge you better in real life, and then offer you some guidance and advice that will give you immediate coping strategies. Not knowing you're situation, you might need a prescription for a relaxant just to take the edge off in the interim. Nobody is trying to gang up on you here, and we all have some issue to cope with ourselves, and sometimes we say things that you might take the wrong way, hence a professional might be more applicable to you right now. This forum has some great threads, but also has less serious threads to give some other outlet for others here. You can't be so judgemental. Please, you need to have a deep conversation with someone in real life.
 
I'm sorry if this may have sounded a little harsh, but what I meant was that this forum may not be effective enough for the way you are hurting at the moment. You need to sit and talk to someone in person, someone who can gauge you better in real life, and then offer you some guidance and advice that will give you immediate coping strategies. Not knowing you're situation, you might need a prescription for a relaxant just to take the edge off in the interim. Nobody is trying to gang up on you here, and we all have some issue to cope with ourselves, and sometimes we say things that you might take the wrong way, hence a professional might be more applicable to you right now. This forum has some great threads, but also has less serious threads to give some other outlet for others here. You can't be so judgemental. Please, you need to have a deep conversation with someone in real life.
Thanks for responding, I have asked for euthanasia. I have a condition that can't be cured. That's the relaxant I will be seeking don't you worry about that.
 
Thanks for responding, I have asked for euthanasia. I have a condition that can't be cured. That's the relaxant I will be seeking don't you worry about that.
I'm sorry you have a condition like that, but I have a condition that can't be cured as well, as done several other people here, but euthanasia isn't the answer for most, and highly improbably in most cases to be allowed. One can still make the most of one's life and change is around with the right help. So I take it that you aren't seeing a mental health professional, otherwise I think you would have said. I think it would help for you to speak to someone in real life.
 

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