Making online friends is impossible for me.

[CAS]

Everyone says how genuine they are and how they're not gonna waste your time, but it's all false. Nobody gives a damn and it's no different on here to any other forum. There's a hierachy on here and I'm right at the very bottom, where I am in all aspects of life.

Everyone is nothing but a disappointment, so I'll just resign myself to the fact that I'll never have friends and I'll die alone.

 

[oarivan]

Good. This way you wont be disappointed and will be stuck in your rut forever and ever.

 

[Steel]

What is it you expect from online friends? This is not the first thread you have created on the subject, and you have frequently criticised them.

 

[Badjedidude]

Online friends CANNOT fill the gap left by offline friends, and if you continually expect them to, then you're going to be continually disappointed.

There's a hierachy on here and I'm right at the very bottom, where I am in all aspects of life.

Because you PLACE yourself there. I've never heard anyone here mention anything bad about you at all. I wasn't aware that you were at the bottom of things (or even that there IS a bottom)...but if you place yourself there, then I guess that's where you'll be.

----Steve

 

[Arnaert]

I'm sure you have more friends on here than I do so you're not at the very bottom(if there is one).

 

[VanillaCreme]

Well, if that's how you feel, that's where you'll be. No one, online or offline, can change you. You have to. And no one, online or offline, can help you. You have to want to help yourself. And having that mindset doesn't help you.

But, like I said, you feel that way, so you'll be that way. Your attitude alone about it makes you push people away. We're not all so bad. I know I care, and there's plenty of other people who care. Or else we wouldn't reply to any of your threads, time after time, trying to give you advice and give you some thoughts.

To be honest, I don't think you want friends for whatever reason. So you slap a label of "No One Cares" on the idea of having friends, and you push it under the rug. If I didn't care, I wouldn't reply. If Jedi didn't care, he wouldn't have bothered. And I've seen Steel, repeatedly trying to give you some thoughts, and he has better things to do on the forum than that. So he cares as well.

Try getting rid of that "No One Cares" attitude. It really pushes people away. Because if you're going to tell us that over and over, don't ever wonder why you feel like we don't care. No one here thinks that but you. You've convinced yourself that no one cares, so there's nothing anyone can do to reverse that.