Maybe You're Lonely Because You're a Jerk!

[mink]

i just wish i was a fly on the wall for every huge ego,d selfish and arrogant person that thought they were better than me,who did,nt want my friendship and started rumours etc when these people get there "problems".

id love to see these people get treated the way i have been and see how they like it,sick of the way i was used etc through school and then just dumped because i suffered from depression through my father beating me etc

Hey..I'm sorry to hear about that.
But yeah, sometimes i do feel like those people who makes fun of you or does things to you should be given a chance to go through the same thing just so they could feel how it feels like, or maybe even worse. But that was angst for me. I don't hold on to that well.

But I really hope you're much better now than before

 

[mink]

Oh my ryan, i feel sorry for you man. I thought the beating was already bad enough, dis-owned you? That's just not right. It would break my heart if that happens to me, i can't imagine. Sigh..

I admire your strength and determination, good thing you didn't let it ruin your life, a great choice you made.

Smallest funeral can be good at times, better than none at all
But who knows you'll find more people in your life soon, maybe when you start a family with your gf, things will change.

 

[Droplet]

Oh my ryan, i feel sorry for you man. I thought the beating was already bad enough, dis-owned you? That's just not right. It would break my heart if that happens to me, i can't imagine. Sigh..

I admire your strength and determination, good thing you didn't let it ruin your life, a great choice you made.

Smallest funeral can be good at times, better than none at all
But who knows you'll find more people in your life soon, maybe when you start a family with your gf, things will change.

I second that I'm sorry Ryan My heart goes out to you

 

[mink]

hey thank you,well we have a family already and 1 on the way on december 31st.it,s the only thing that keeps me sane and to keep going.the worst bit is i have recently been diagnosed with a rare and crippling bone,nerve and kidney disease.

even with that my family chose to dis-own me and walk away,there is more to the story but basically they dont like my gf because she had the same troubles as me as a kid and is a victim,i think thats why we get on so well.

anyway my gf was raped by her best friends dad and so is obviously not gonna be the happiest of people all the time,my family just say she is horrible etc.
of course i picked over my family as it,s another form of bullying her,the worst bit is my kids now have no grandma,cousins,aunts,uncles etc hence why we wanted 4 kids so they atleast have a brother and sister etc.

i tell you when you cant trust your own family who can you trust?i thank you for your love though..it means a lot

Congratulations on the baby! I wish you all the best with your gf and kids.

My goodness, ryan. It doesn't end, does it? I'm really sorry to hear this, this is heartbreaking enough for me. I mean to know what you've been through, and then this health problem, I really understand the strain it must be on you and your family. This diagnosis you have, does it have a cure or is there something you can do to treat it? And what kind of family who would walk away just like that? That's not family at all. You've got your current family now, that's all that matters. It's hard, it's understandable how terrible it is to go through life without support from your parents. But you've been strong

And I'm sorry to hear about your gf's past as well, my heart goes out to both of you and your kids. Well if you can't trust your family, you know you can trust your gf and the kids you have. You wouldn't be where you are if you can't trust them.

If you were my real friend, i'd help out any way i can but all i can do now, is to lend you support through my words.
And to relate to the topic here, you're not a jerk but you're lonely because they are the jerks here. They are the jerks and they will probably be even more lonely than you for what they've done to you.

 

[mink]

I don't have any grandparents, well I do have one left but doesn't feel like i have any, somewhat not included in that part of their world. Anyway, when your children grow old enough I'm sure they'd understand. No one's to be blamed here that they might not have relatives like that.

Oh my..I've studied a little about those diseases before, i just know what they are but don't know about any cures or treatments. Gosh it must be really hard. And for your gf to be able to accept you in this state is just awesome. She must be a really strong person.

Wish there's something i can do. But you shouldn't give up man. It's worth the fight if it means you'd achieve something for yourself and for the people you love.

I hope there will be a long-term treatment for you, if not a cure. Do take care of yourself

 

[mink]

Wow 8-year relationship that's been long and yeah i understand about not wanting to get out of it due to fear of being alone. But it's a good thing you met your gf after that. At least you met someone in life and is spending it with her now

Wow you didn't even know how she looked like and you went straight on with it. That's brave and really awesome.

I'm glad she's decided to stay on with you. Not many people can be that strong to go through these stuff with you. They either let go halfway or just stopped caring. You've got a beautiful family

Good luck with your health though, ryan. I really hope you'll get better.

 

[mink]

Good for you, ryan.