More Ranting

[tehdreamer]

Yah, so I'm gonna rant and complain about yet something else

So, I find it's a strange feeling when you discover someone is purposely avoiding you. And it's even stranger when you know you haven't done anything bad to them. They either find you boring or annoying and are just trying to spare your feelings about it. I'm guilty of doing the same thing to others in the past. But I figure those people wouldn't really care if I wasn't talking to them or not.

If I know the person for a long while, then it hurts my feelings. If I've just met them, then it's just a feeling of confusion. Makes me wonder why and how I'm being annoying.

 

[nerdygirl]

Poke them with a stalk of celery. Unless it's me. If it's me, then I'd rather be poked with a Twizzler. Though I'm not avoiding you. But still. I would like to be poked with candy.

 

[tehdreamer]

*makes it rain twizzlers on Nerdy*

 

[Badjedidude]

OMG I want some twizzlers!

But I suppose at this point, I'd also settle for celery.

You spend more energy consuming it than it gives you, ya know.

Healthy stuff.

Mmhmm.

 

[Mausolos]

So, I find it's a strange feeling when you discover someone is purposely avoiding you. And it's even stranger when you know you haven't done anything bad to them. They either find you boring or annoying and are just trying to spare your feelings about it.

Not always.

Sometimes I take a break from someone because I believe it's ME the one who is boring, annoying and has nothing interesting to say to them. Sometimes, when I feel too much depressed, I prefer not to talk to anyone. But it does not mean I dislike the person, far from it, there are days I avoid the people who I really love because I think I would only be a pain-in-the-ass for them.

And I suffer because of that, I start thinking the person thinks I'm avoiding them because I want so, while what really happens is that I just feel uncapable to talk to them due to feeling depressed or anxious about of something else.

And it's happening to me right NOW. I just can't pick up the phone to talk to a certain someone (someone I NEEDED to talk to) due to my current negative/depressive moods, and I keep wondering what the person might be thinking of me... "What a jerk, he just forgot about me, how rude"...

 

[shells]

Sometimes, when I feel too much depressed, I prefer not to talk to anyone. But it does not mean I dislike the person, far from it, there are days I avoid the people who I really love because I think I would only be a pain-in-the-ass for them.

I do this quite a bit.

 

[SophiaGrace]

Twizzlers are not good for poking, they droop. Celery stalks dont!

 

[tehdreamer]

I avoid people sometimes for those reasons too. But sometimes you can tell when someone just doesn't want to be bothered anymore. Especially when you have more than one way to contact them; They'll log out of one place, only to be seen in another with no signs of leaving. :club: