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Zolitoo

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I am an egyptian living in Egypt, I have a good financial income, my family also has a high financial and social level.

I am a lonely personality who almost have not only one friend, just going to work and then back to home watching tv and sleeping, I am preparing a master in science degree in my profession.

I broke up with my first fiancé several months ago and my loneliness substantially increased and feeling so bad and depressed since splitting from her, my life was started to be nice since our engagement, but after the breakup it is going worse and worse.

I just feel that My life has no value, no friend, no kids, no wife, I live just like a machine that work at morning and back to home and that is it.

The immigration idea comes to my mind from time to time as the economical and political situation in Egypt is currently unstable, but I return and ask my self what will I gain if I immigrated, it may be a better enviroment and better life style if everything will be going as I expect, and that is for sure not always the case

You may tell me to go and date other girls, but actually that does not work here in the eastern societies, it is here somewhat more difficult, i do not just want a girl friend, no, I want to marry and make family and kids and this is a long term commitment that should be built on a solid relationship.

In brief I am depressed, just working and sometimes studying, do not have any social or emotional life I cannot find anything in my life that deserves being alive.

Do you have any advice? :(
 
Hi,

Sorry to hear about your breakup. It's not just an Eastern thing, most people want to form a relationship and settle down. It's much harder than just "going out and finding a girl" as you put.

If you don't have a social life, then it's time to work on this first before looking for anything different. Try new activities, hobbies, anything that you enjoy and have fun doing, go for it. You're more than likely going to meet new people through that route.

Internet dating is another. I've never tried it myself, but it works out for a lot of people. There's never a dead end. You're just stuck in the rut after a failed relationship.

Just pick yourself back up, get out there, and being to enjoy your life again. The longer you stay behind close doors with you head buried the long it will take to get better.
 

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