Need Friends, have none..

[Shychita]

Hi Everyone I am 28 years old the youngest of 4. My brothers were my Half borthers and 10-12 years older than me so I grew up pretty much an Only Child. to make matters worse, i have always been very shy I never really had a bunch of friends. Growing up I remember I would only have One friend and that was it. Usually they were more popular than me so they would start to hang out less and less. I was molested at a very young age so that pretty much ruined my self asteem. So from the start I lost my self asteem, I was shy and a lonely kid. We also moved a lot so I was never able to keep long friends. As I got older it got worse but then In my Senior year of High school i met a really cool friend who was very confident in him self and was very friendly we were insepreavble and i was able to Open up and be almost like him, i started to speak up, worry about how i dressed, laughed a lot I finally realized life was meant to be fun and that i was actually a pretty funny girl! but... it all soon ended once i graduated. I had to work full time and support myself and i went back into my shell. Now I work in an office where I dont see anyone, i dont like or talk to my only 2 co workers and im in this office alone. I dont go to church (I prolly should) and im starting college again but only one class and late at night (trust me there are no friends to be made there) so ive always gone from boyfriend to boyfriend but i think its only because i have no friends. I broke up with my Bf recently because i realized i was with him for the wrong reasons. One of them, Lonelyness. I want friends i know i can be sociable but i just cant seem to figure out where to find them... Friends are a treasure but also very hard to find. I have aquaintances, people i know, but they are not my friends because I always find my self texting them to hang and they never reply. Maybe this site will help me and everyone of you. if you are in the San Diego California area and would like to try being friends, PLEASE let me know! thanks for reading.

 

[Yukhi]

Hi Shychita! We'll be your friends Welcome!!

 

[Minus]

Welcome to the site.

 

[Badjedidude]

Welcome to the site.

 

[nerdygirl]

Hello

 

[Asterli]

Hello Shychita and welcome here to this site!

 

[VanillaCreme]

Welcome.

 

[edgecrusher]

hey and welcome. if you want someont to talk to join the chat room sometime.

 

[Jesse]

Hi Everyone I am 28 years old the youngest of 4. My brothers were my Half borthers and 10-12 years older than me so I grew up pretty much an Only Child. to make matters worse, i have always been very shy I never really had a bunch of friends. Growing up I remember I would only have One friend and that was it. Usually they were more popular than me so they would start to hang out less and less. I was molested at a very young age so that pretty much ruined my self asteem. So from the start I lost my self asteem, I was shy and a lonely kid. We also moved a lot so I was never able to keep long friends. As I got older it got worse but then In my Senior year of High school i met a really cool friend who was very confident in him self and was very friendly we were insepreavble and i was able to Open up and be almost like him, i started to speak up, worry about how i dressed, laughed a lot I finally realized life was meant to be fun and that i was actually a pretty funny girl! but... it all soon ended once i graduated. I had to work full time and support myself and i went back into my shell. Now I work in an office where I dont see anyone, i dont like or talk to my only 2 co workers and im in this office alone. I dont go to church (I prolly should) and im starting college again but only one class and late at night (trust me there are no friends to be made there) so ive always gone from boyfriend to boyfriend but i think its only because i have no friends. I broke up with my Bf recently because i realized i was with him for the wrong reasons. One of them, Lonelyness. I want friends i know i can be sociable but i just cant seem to figure out where to find them... Friends are a treasure but also very hard to find. I have aquaintances, people i know, but they are not my friends because I always find my self texting them to hang and they never reply. Maybe this site will help me and everyone of you. if you are in the San Diego California area and would like to try being friends, PLEASE let me know! thanks for reading.

Hey welcome!

I know it's hard after getting out of school. Friends fade away, but you can make new friends. It can happen. Don't give up on yourself!

 

[bozzPOH]

hi synchita...welcome..jessie is right dont give up...go ninja!