No help here

[mink]

I care, trent. I'm always here like before. I read everything here but sometimes i've got nothing to say lol. And i do get what you're saying there, i do. Hope you're doing fine

 

[Bluey]

yea thats is a problem that there are a lot of ppl read what you and what others have put but just don't know what to say thats going to help any. They can even seat there and think YEEEEE!!! thats just how I feel but still not know in what way to reply.

It is a sham that there most be some ppl come hear and post and not get the response there looking for. But I am just one person who has other things in my life to. I think you are a nice guy that I hope well stick around. We all can only do our best.

But you are right to just have a reply says that someone cared a nuff to read it. If I see a Guest
that has no replies I do try and make the effete to at least show that he/her post was acknowledge. That's most of the time all any of us can do.

 

[Living_in_solitude]

if more people like you bluey only took the time to do what you did. this forum could help that many more people. again, thank you bluey for caring

Well gee... don't I feel like an ass for the big thanks i just got! I mean obviously trying to reiterate your point of view is not enough.

Now I feel much more welcomed...

 

[Living_in_solitude]

Actually, I must agree with the Guest a little! At first I thought that this forum will help me break the solitude by engaging in passionate debates about the social life difficulties. Debate in a deep way so that we can work together understand how to improve our lives. Build our self esteems little by little. It is nothing to do being friends with anyone it is a simple matter of having people wanting to work on their problems not simply complain about it. The sad reality is that not many were perceptive for the brain storming Idea.

Sorry ppl. it is not personal, just wanted to reiterate Guest's position.
Cheers

It takes time to get to know people and their personalities online just like it does in person. It's not that humans are stand offish ..sometimes it's just a matter of getting to understand you better.

This is an anounymous forum and the whole point of it is to talk to strangers about common problems, otherwise it defeats its purpose.

So now I have to get to know people on this forum inside and out for me to talk to them? So how does this differ from the real world? Do i get rejected also in here because "people" don't know me enough? Doesn't make much sense sweets

No..no..you're taking my words the wrong way. I mean, how can people offer advice and help unless a certain amount of time is spent getting to know you. And who here has rejected you?

Look..after thinking about it. Just forget I mentioned anything. I retract eveything I've said. OK? No hard feelings. I am leaving this thread.

Man what is it with people and quitting? Can't we have a mature debate anymore? It is not about hard feelings. it is about congnitive therapy... the more you talk about the problems the more you understand it and you may come to peace with it...

Alright..but I don't think you realize that you're sending out two different signals to me. One saying that I shouldn't think about getting to know you. And yet, I am to debate (you) on personal issues. It's just a little confusing to me that's all. Think of this. Walking up to a stranger you've just met and starting a conversation about his life and his issues. See what I mean? It's exactly the same thing here. I wasn't quitting because I object to anything..it's just that I don't want to upset anyone.

Arianna, again I reiterate my position. Knowing someone has nothing to do with it. After all how bad can it be if you don't know someone? the simple fact that I am trying to state is that I presented an argument and would like very much from people to build a healthy debate so we can understand better the situation in which we are living. what difference does it make if I knew someone or not? Besides don't you think that posting replies would be a GREAT OPPORTUNITY to get to know me by engaging with me on the issue which Guest has presented? I mean here is your chance to GET TO KNOW ME and you simply reject it by not participating in a heatlhy way just because you don't know me. talk about sending different messages!

 

[Arianna]

Actually, I must agree with the Guest a little! At first I thought that this forum will help me break the solitude by engaging in passionate debates about the social life difficulties. Debate in a deep way so that we can work together understand how to improve our lives. Build our self esteems little by little. It is nothing to do being friends with anyone it is a simple matter of having people wanting to work on their problems not simply complain about it. The sad reality is that not many were perceptive for the brain storming Idea.

Sorry ppl. it is not personal, just wanted to reiterate Guest's position.
Cheers

It takes time to get to know people and their personalities online just like it does in person. It's not that humans are stand offish ..sometimes it's just a matter of getting to understand you better.

This is an anounymous forum and the whole point of it is to talk to strangers about common problems, otherwise it defeats its purpose.

So now I have to get to know people on this forum inside and out for me to talk to them? So how does this differ from the real world? Do i get rejected also in here because "people" don't know me enough? Doesn't make much sense sweets

No..no..you're taking my words the wrong way. I mean, how can people offer advice and help unless a certain amount of time is spent getting to know you. And who here has rejected you?

Look..after thinking about it. Just forget I mentioned anything. I retract eveything I've said. OK? No hard feelings. I am leaving this thread.

Man what is it with people and quitting? Can't we have a mature debate anymore? It is not about hard feelings. it is about congnitive therapy... the more you talk about the problems the more you understand it and you may come to peace with it...

Alright..but I don't think you realize that you're sending out two different signals to me. One saying that I shouldn't think about getting to know you. And yet, I am to debate (you) on personal issues. It's just a little confusing to me that's all. Think of this. Walking up to a stranger you've just met and starting a conversation about his life and his issues. See what I mean? It's exactly the same thing here. I wasn't quitting because I object to anything..it's just that I don't want to upset anyone.

Arianna, again I reiterate my position. Knowing someone has nothing to do with it. After all how bad can it be if you don't know someone? the simple fact that I am trying to state is that I presented an argument and would like very much from people to build a healthy debate so we can understand better the situation in which we are living. what difference does it make if I knew someone or not? Besides don't you think that posting replies would be a GREAT OPPORTUNITY to get to know me by engaging with me on the issue which Guest has presented? I mean here is your chance to GET TO KNOW ME and you simply reject it by not participating in a heatlhy way just because you don't know me. talk about sending different messages!

Oh boy!..you must be male. Male and female ..completely different creatures and languages. Let me try to speak a little plainer. When I mentioned 'getting to know you' - I didn't mean to imply that I needed to know your whole life story. Before I engage in any debate with my winning logic and no fault comprehension ..I try to get some sort of a 'feel' for the person I am speaking to. I feel very responsible when it comes to this arena of advice giving. Especially when dealing with those suffering from severe depression. And no..I am not implying that you are! I just don't want to say something that could harm anyone in anyway. And hopefully..I haven't. As far as rejecting 'it' - all I meant was - that I didn't want to post something that could or would hurt your feelings. OK? Yes..I realize we're all strangers here and maybe that shouldn't matter..but to me it does.

 

[NewBirth]

Oh boy!..you must be male. Male and female ..completely different creatures and languages. Let me try to speak a little plainer.

condescension on the rocks plz.......... make it a double

 

[Trent9maynard46n2]

if more people like you bluey only took the time to do what you did. this forum could help that many more people. again, thank you bluey for caring

Well gee... don't I feel like an ass for the big thanks i just got! I mean obviously trying to reiterate your point of view is not enough.

Now I feel much more welcomed...

your totally right. and I am really sorry. I didn't see your post till now. I hope you don't think i was purposely trying to be rude. if there is any way I can make it up to you. let me know.

 

[NewBirth]

Well gee... don't I feel like an ass for the big thanks i just got! I mean obviously trying to reiterate your point of view is not enough.

Now I feel much more welcomed...

ppl can do that alot here. 1 of the worst situations is when a nice post of mine gets ignored 4 an attack post from some1 else
but u have 2 ignore these things. & not take them personally
theyre not personal. sometimes ppl dont c. sometimes ppl r distracted

 

[Trent9maynard46n2]

also, thank you mink for the kind words and gesture. I know your still there. I just didn't want to bother you or get on your nerves like, geez..... can't this guy find some one else to talk

 

[Arianna]

Oh boy!..you must be male. Male and female ..completely different creatures and languages. Let me try to speak a little plainer.

condescension on the rocks plz.......... make it a double

You know..something told me I should have stopped while I was ahead. NO..I was not being condescending. I was just trying to be nice. But what is apparent to me is how many people here have a chip on their shoulders just asking for someone to knock it off. Even if that person is sincere and making attempts at being friendly. I am outta here..bye y'all!!

 

[mink]

also, thank you mink for the kind words and gesture. I know your still there. I just didn't want to bother you or get on your nerves like, geez..... can't this guy find some one else to talk

Lol no of course not! Talk anytime you want lol
People talking to me doesn't bother me, it should be a good thing, and i can tolerate a lot so not much gets on my nerves until i say it gets on my nerves lol

 

[NewBirth]

But what is apparent to me is how many people here have a chip on their shoulders just asking for someone to knock it off.

sometimes we can often c our biggest issue in others

 

[Trent9maynard46n2]

Meow???:shy:

 

[NewBirth]

LoL thats 1 pussy i wont b chasing

 

[mink]

Lol

 

[AngryLoner]

LoL thats 1 pussy i wont b chasing

lmao

 

[Trent9maynard46n2]

ok, yall are offically crazy! I only meant that I dont understand what the other 2 post before mine was in refrence too. its like one minute we're talking about emotions and feelings. and the next minute its like a cat fight or some thing. never mind, yall would have to been in mind what I typed what I did. woof woof!