LonelyInAtl said:Lost for now said:The more attractive you feel, the more attractive you get.
It is wrong for you or anyone else to think women only like attractive guy. Not all, but at least half the women out there will choose the kind, intelligent and nice guy over any "good-looking" or rich guy.
The bottom-line is, as long as you continue to think there's no hope for you, there really isn't going to be any.
Perhaps. However, it's hard to feel attractive when you are consistently dismissed by women because of your looks and/or body type.
I was at a "Meetup" singles dance last week. I had finally gotten up enough courage to actually try to talk to women at one of these things. Everyone I tried to talk to, or asked to dance, basically gave be the brush off. Later, I see some of the same women laughing and chatting it up with a "good looking" guy. How is that supposed to make someone feel?
It may be wrong for us to think that women only like attractive guys, but as a general rule women will not give unattractive guys a chance. It's inbred into humans as a species to seek out potential mates that are perceived as worthy and able to bear good children. Society has it ingrained in people's mind these days that being unattractive, short, overweight, etc are undesirable qualities and people steer away from those attributes as a general rule. I'm sure there are people who don't think this way (me being one of them), but it seems they are few and far between.
So that being said....any women in Atlanta want to be my date to The Hunger Games premier Wed night? LOL Didn't think so.
You do see the occasional unttractive guy with a woman though. So it happened for them. Just need to extremely lucky.
Keep going to the single nights and continue to ask women to dance. One day you will get lucky !