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cumulus.james

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Nothing matters.

That, is the fundamental truth.

Consciousness is a random freakish accident of evolution, and a cruel one at that.

So the task for us all is to create our own delusions of meaning.

Personally, I lack the ability to do this.

No, nothing matters. Not for I.
 
Rahvin said:
Amthorn said:
Well, then, we can be happy, because there is nothing to worry about!

This made me happy :)
Kudos to you, kind sir.

Of course! Mr. James here has expounded upon a very basic truth. Consciousness is conditional and no thing matters. This means all of our suffering is imaginary. What wonderful news!!
 
cumulus.james said:
So the task for us all is to create our own delusions of meaning.

But they aren't delusions. Yes, we create our own meaning, but it will only be a delusion if it's not based in reality. Many people are not living a delusional life and those that are CHOOSE to live there.

You also choose how you deal with your suffering, which, IMO is where delusions form. You don't want to face reality, so you make it up as you go. Whatever will help you get through the day, as long as you don't have to face what you are trying to escape. But you aren't escaping it, it's still there, you're just hiding from it.
Face your fears and memories and whatever else is haunting you and get through it. May not be easy to do, but it's worth it.
 
I ******* hurt OK. Take the piss all you want but I hurt every second of every day and I just can't find another human to connect with. I am literally worthless. I actually dont matter. No one, not once, not ever loved or cared about me and they never will.
 
Amthorn said:
Well, then, we can be happy, because there is nothing to worry about!

You're okay in my book. We all can just unbutton our pants at the dinner table, or better yet, not wear any at all. Why bother, right?

Lost Drifter said:
But chipmunks, especially those riding unicycles, they matter surly?

Yes. And if I see a midget riding a bullymong next to those chipmunks, I'll surely die.
 
cumulus.james said:
I ******* hurt OK. Take the piss all you want but I hurt every second of every day and I just can't find another human to connect with. I am literally worthless. I actually dont matter. No one, not once, not ever loved or cared about me and they never will.

Yes, that's pretty much all we hear from you.

I think you just want someone else to validate that you feel worthless by saying "Yeah, you are right. You are worthless.".

Would it make you feel better to be heard in that way? I have no idea but it is far too mean a thing for anyone here to say to you. You're never going to get what you are looking for.
 
SophiaGrace said:
cumulus.james said:
I ******* hurt OK. Take the piss all you want but I hurt every second of every day and I just can't find another human to connect with. I am literally worthless. I actually dont matter. No one, not once, not ever loved or cared about me and they never will.

Yes, that's pretty much all we hear from you.

I think you just want someone else to validate that you feel worthless by saying "Yeah, you are right. You are worthless.".

Would it make you feel better to be heard in that way? I have no idea but it is far too mean a thing for anyone here to say to you. You're never going to get what you are looking for.

Agree completely. You're not going to hear what you want; At least not from decent people.
 
VanillaCreme said:
We all can just unbutton our pants at the dinner table, or better yet, not wear any at all. Why bother, right?

If you sit at MY table, you WILL have pants on (a skirt or shorts will also suffice) or you will not sit. :club:
 
TheRealCallie said:
VanillaCreme said:
We all can just unbutton our pants at the dinner table, or better yet, not wear any at all. Why bother, right?

If you sit at MY table, you WILL have pants on (a skirt or shorts will also suffice) or you will not sit. :club:

Are footie pajamas acceptible attire?
 
cumulus.james said:
I ******* hurt OK. Take the piss all you want but I hurt every second of every day and I just can't find another human to connect with. I am literally worthless. I actually dont matter. No one, not once, not ever loved or cared about me and they never will.

I wasn't kidding, man. It's true, none of us really matter. None of us automatically are loved or liked or cared about. We have to do something to make ourselves worth caring about. And that is the honest truth. And people DO care. WE care. But you have to let us.
 
SophiaGrace said:
TheRealCallie said:
VanillaCreme said:
We all can just unbutton our pants at the dinner table, or better yet, not wear any at all. Why bother, right?

If you sit at MY table, you WILL have pants on (a skirt or shorts will also suffice) or you will not sit. :club:

Are footie pajamas acceptible attire?

Sure, we'll go to Walmart after we eat :p
 
cumulus.james said:
I am worthless.

I AM worthless.

You are what you believe you are. Stop thinking you are worthless and you won't be.
How you feel about yourself will affect everything you do in life. No one is worthless, but it's up to you to believe that you do or do not have worth.
 
TheRealCallie said:
SophiaGrace said:
TheRealCallie said:
VanillaCreme said:
We all can just unbutton our pants at the dinner table, or better yet, not wear any at all. Why bother, right?

If you sit at MY table, you WILL have pants on (a skirt or shorts will also suffice) or you will not sit. :club:

Are footie pajamas acceptible attire?

Sure, we'll go to Walmart after we eat :p

After this thread title, can we sing Bohemian Rhapsody in the car please?
 

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