Seemingly Strange Sexual Fetishes *Mature Content*

[Lonely in BC]

I know this won't qualify as a fetish or kinky but when a lady wears my shirt as her "pajamas" it really turns me on. I'm an XL shirt and when she puts it on (loosely buttoned and nothing underneath, hair down, etc) it drives me wild.

Other than that I just need a willing partner (female of course), a lot of foreplay, and no interruptions- I take my lovin seriously

 

[Kat]

Where did I even use the word cause?

 

[LoneKiller]

Are fetishes different in any way between males and females? Does gender play a role in certain fetishes that develop?

 

[Doubt The Rabbit]

It's due to classical and operant conditioning.

Well when you're as vague as this and then say "due to," one has little to draw on for conclusion. That's why I said you should explain what you meant. If you're not going to use the right words and THEN refuse to support your idea with more information than an article that explains operant conditioning without actually explaining in what way you think conditioning plays a role in fetishism, then you can't blame people for misunderstanding you.

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Are fetishes different in any way between males and females? Does gender play a role in certain fetishes that develop?

I don't know for sure. What I can tell you is that males seem to be more receptive to strange fetishes than females. Fetish communities such as AB/DL, Balloon lovers, and human toilets (gross, right? Haha) tend to have a higher rate of males at the recieving end than females. Females will generally be on the giving end, e.g. the "mommy" of an ab/dl or the person using the "human toilet". Even then, women who will even participate in those are few and far in between.
Basically, I don't think it's so much that any gender is prone to certain types of fetishes as it is that gender may affect how open one is to stranger fetishes. Women seem to be more reserved in that area.

 

[passage]

I have what I would consider "mild fetishes". Nothing like bdsm or choking. Personally I think anal sex is a strange fetish, but to each his/her own.

 

[Doubt The Rabbit]

I have several fetishes, some kinda strange and some super strange.

 

[LoneKiller]

It's due to classical and operant conditioning.

Well when you're as vague as this and then say "due to," one has little to draw on for conclusion. That's why I said you should explain what you meant. If you're not going to use the right words and THEN refuse to support your idea with more information than an article that explains operant conditioning without actually explaining in what way you think conditioning plays a role in fetishism, then you can't blame people for misunderstanding you.

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Are fetishes different in any way between males and females? Does gender play a role in certain fetishes that develop?

I don't know for sure. What I can tell you is that males seem to be more receptive to strange fetishes than females. Fetish communities such as AB/DL, Balloon lovers, and human toilets (gross, right? Haha) tend to have a higher rate of males at the recieving end than females. Females will generally be on the giving end, e.g. the "mommy" of an ab/dl or the person using the "human toilet". Even then, women who will even participate in those are few and far in between.
Basically, I don't think it's so much that any gender is prone to certain types of fetishes as it is that gender may affect how open one is to stranger fetishes. Women seem to be more reserved in that area.

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A lot of the "Shock Sites" I used to view, had their fair share of "Human Toilet" vids. And I thought that eating haggis was gross.

 

[LonelyInAtl]

I have to admit I have two or three things that may be outside the norm that I like, but then again, maybe not these days.

I will say they have NOTHING do do with anything going in, or coming out of, my ass or anyone else's. LOL

 

[TheSolitaryMan]

Something interesting just struck me: what's controversial changes radically over time.

I wonder if in 200 years if practices we find bizarre now are more commonplace and acceptable?

Though actually I doubt that, since I guess back in the past people were more restrained in general. That doesn't seem to be the case these days.

 

[SophiaGrace]

In Rome, they had male on male sex all the time

 

[Syber Tiger]

wet girls
and naked bbw's

(yum)




(chew)

 

[LoneKiller]

I know this won't qualify as a fetish or kinky but when a lady wears my shirt as her "pajamas" it really turns me on. I'm an XL shirt and when she puts it on (loosely buttoned and nothing underneath, hair down, etc) it drives me wild.

Other than that I just need a willing partner (female of course), a lot of foreplay, and no interruptions- I take my lovin seriously

Hey Lonely.
I think a fetish can be applied to lots of unusual things that one may find sexually exciting. Below is a definition I got from my extensions dictionary.

A form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body; "common male fetishes are breasts, legs, hair, shoes, and underwear"

 

[Lonely in BC]

I know this won't qualify as a fetish or kinky but when a lady wears my shirt as her "pajamas" it really turns me on. I'm an XL shirt and when she puts it on (loosely buttoned and nothing underneath, hair down, etc) it drives me wild.

Other than that I just need a willing partner (female of course), a lot of foreplay, and no interruptions- I take my lovin seriously

Hey Lonely.
I think a fetish can be applied to lots of unusual things that one may find sexually exciting. Below is a definition I got from my extensions dictionary.

A form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body; "common male fetishes are breasts, legs, hair, shoes, and underwear"

I'm also a **** man- all shapes and sizes fascinate me.

 

[SophiaGrace]

LOL I love how everyone is coming out of the closet on this

 

[Lonely in BC]

LOL I love how everyone is coming out of the closet on this

In that case,

Any chance of getting you on the Harley when I cruise the States in 2013?

 

[LoneKiller]

LOL I love how everyone is coming out of the closet on this

Yup! LOL

 

[SophiaGrace]

Any chance of getting you on the Harley when I cruise the States in 2013?

Hmm

Maybe I could show you around D.C. a bit if you'd like.

Does this involve a fetish???

 

[Felix]

Well... since everyone is comig out as Sophia says... I might put my 2 cents to keep it going.

I have a thing for spanking, both giving and reciving. Ever since I watched a movie related to that, it wasn't a porn movie, it was a typical hollywood like movie. Wish I remembered the name.

I tried it once, I told her 'can I spank you?' she said yes so I did it while we were having sex doggystyle. It was cool but then in another position she started slapping me really hard in the stomach! It hurted! She looked pretty crazy... I felt like I couldn't stop her... But anyways, I haven't tried it again maybe I shoud

 

[Lonely in BC]

Any chance of getting you on the Harley when I cruise the States in 2013?

Hmm

Maybe I could show you around D.C. a bit if you'd like.

Does this involve a fetish???

A tour of D.C.- very high on the list of places to go.

Fetish- is that an invite? I think I mentioned the ones that float my boat.

Hmmmm, the shirt, the girl, ****s, and a Harley......

Either it's Heaven or a great motorcycle calendar.

Or the start of a new fantasy..........

 

[whispers]

lol funny thread, myself i have quite a few, nothing nasty... A man with wet hair and no shirt...outside...i also tend to bite, but only drew blood a few times, oups.
I think its personnal, fun, makes things exiting.

But i think, feces, dead people, animals,children Etc are not fetishes. they are mental illnesses. the acts of psychopaths