VanillaCreme said:Why didn't any of that make sense to me? Wonderful, but damaged? What? Like a bent can sale? I'm not understanding... She's dented, but she's just the can of corn that you love, so you get her 50% off?
Please, elaborate if you will.
VanillaCreme said:Then be a friend to her. Even if you'd like to be more than that, she seems like she really could use a friend. Perhaps, eventually, she'd see you in a different light. If you can't be patient enough and at least be her friend, then perhaps you shouldn't bother with her.
Okiedokes said:Agreed with the above. She's probably really scared and of course doesn't want to be hurt again. A piece of advice I heard recently was the more you give your heart out to different people, the more it hurts when they leave/hurt you. I think if she had you around longer and as a friend, knowing you aren't going to boot her out of your life, maybe she'll start to trust the idea of something more.
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