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Drew88

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Why do I keep meeting so many wonderful woman, but women who are always to damage too move forward. This last one sweep me off my feet, and I fear unlike any other woman. Damn Damn Damn Damn Damn.
 
Why didn't any of that make sense to me? Wonderful, but damaged? What? Like a bent can sale? I'm not understanding... She's dented, but she's just the can of corn that you love, so you get her 50% off?

Please, elaborate if you will.
 
VanillaCreme said:
Why didn't any of that make sense to me? Wonderful, but damaged? What? Like a bent can sale? I'm not understanding... She's dented, but she's just the can of corn that you love, so you get her 50% off?

Please, elaborate if you will.


We clicked so well, our personalities mussed so well. She is everything I wanted and from what I gather so was I. But due to losing her husband in the past (died) and having the same thing happen with a good ex (left for no reason) she just rather be alone then be involved with anyone. And I really fell for her hard.
 
Then be a friend to her. Even if you'd like to be more than that, she seems like she really could use a friend. Perhaps, eventually, she'd see you in a different light. If you can't be patient enough and at least be her friend, then perhaps you shouldn't bother with her.
 
VanillaCreme said:
Then be a friend to her. Even if you'd like to be more than that, she seems like she really could use a friend. Perhaps, eventually, she'd see you in a different light. If you can't be patient enough and at least be her friend, then perhaps you shouldn't bother with her.


I can't as she said the odds are too great against it.
 
Agreed with the above. She's probably really scared and of course doesn't want to be hurt again. A piece of advice I heard recently was the more you give your heart out to different people, the more it hurts when they leave/hurt you. I think if she had you around longer and as a friend, knowing you aren't going to boot her out of your life, maybe she'll start to trust the idea of something more.
 
Okiedokes said:
Agreed with the above. She's probably really scared and of course doesn't want to be hurt again. A piece of advice I heard recently was the more you give your heart out to different people, the more it hurts when they leave/hurt you. I think if she had you around longer and as a friend, knowing you aren't going to boot her out of your life, maybe she'll start to trust the idea of something more.

I can not just be around as a friend, I would be an infacturate fool. She's is moving away anyway.
 

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