Sophia is Leaving

[SophiaGrace]

Dearest friends at ALL,

And you are dear to me. You're like my second family. A big, extended, ever-varying family.

The time has come for Sophia to leave.

After doing a lot of soul-searching I've realized that this site is no longer benefitting me.
I'm pretty sure I have failed this semester at college and I'm sick to death of it. I am sick to death of crying over my grades and college every single semester.

I close my eyes and I try to imagine what I want the most out of life and i've realized that more than anything...even more than friends...I want to be a psychologist. Without it my life seems vastly empty and hollow.

In the past, i've used ALL to hide and avoid life. I ran. I hid because I saw college as a place to fail. I saw life as a place where I didnt really want to exist. A torture.

But now, now....I realize what would make life meaningful for me. I realize what would make me get out of bed, and smile.

It's not a love, nor a great large group of friends. But being able to sit down with another person that is troubled and showing them I care and trying my best to help them through rough patches in their life.

I love people. And I love the people of ALL.

But this is not where my future lies...

I refuse to hide anymore.

I request that a moderator delete my account.

With much love,

SophiaGrace

 

[evanescencefan91]

goodluck with everything

*hugs*

 

[Solace]

I am glad you've realized something that can help you move forward. This is encouraging though we wish we could be with you every step of your progress!

Good luck.

 

[Ekstra]

Sigh, I didn't think you were serious about that 1000 post thing. Don't delete your account and stuff, I think that's just being dramatic. Prepare yourself for next semester. I don't think facing your priorities and keeping up appearances in ALL as mutually exclusive. Personally I don't blame distractions for any of my academic failures. I searched them out and I'd find more distractions. College isn't hard stuff, you realize that every time you enter a new semester "it was easier last time, now this is harder." I have a feeling you won't be reading this and I'm frustrated to see that you think these dramatics are necessary. Really? post furiously about issues you'd like to discuss till you hit 1000 then quit?

I'll tell you what you and most others our age here need to do: Learn to love yourself and that starts with doing what you need to love yourself for. I don't think ALL has anything to do with that.

 

[Punisher]

:O woot da fooook?!?!? You said you were gonna stay

 

[cheaptrickfan]

Best of luck, Sophia. I hope that you keep your account and check back in from time to time.

 

[Luna]

You'll be missed, but please feel free any time to drop by a visit and give us an update on how you're doing.

Wish you all the best in all of your future endeavors!

 

[Lawrens]

Good luck Sophia, it was nice knowing you. You've contributed a lot to the forum. I wish you luck. It's nice knowing what you want to do and actually want to spend your time pursuing it.

I've always thought your personality and action matches the meaning behind your name quite well: Wisdom
I hope you keep pursuing it and have a nice life, you deserve it. Pretty sure you know better than me, but I don't really know what other nice things to say, that's all I could come up with.

I like hearing people screaming out what they want to do, it always feel like it'd encourage me a little as well, so thank you for that too I hope after you've made enough progress, you'd come back and encourage us more (that is if some of us are still here).

 

[nerdygirl]

Aww, I was just getting to know you. I wish you the best of luck in your endeavors. Go be happy!

 

[*The Cursed One*]

Haven't known you long but you will be missed Wishing you luck!

 

[sad sack]

I hope you reconsider.

But if not, good luck.

By the way, you still owe me cookies

 

[Coverage]

Sorry to see that you are leaving. I understand that you need to do what you need to do, but I hope that you will reconsider having your account deleted and that you will at least drop in every now and then.

 

[viviana]

i shared the same dream. and i oftentime think of leaving. that's all i seem to do. i am tired really of being alone. well farewell my friend. please do come back and let us know something great happen in the course of the time you are gone. anything.
let's put it that way. you're one person i've come to know, and now i 'll never be able to erase from memory, ever.

 

[shells]

Well, this post bummed me out. However, Sophia, I really wish the best for you. You have such a radiant soul that sheds light into the life of others. Don't ever doubt your abilities and your potential. Please take care of yourself.

With love,
"bomb shells"

 

[Brian]

Sophia, you're one of the nicest people I've ever talked to.

I hope you become a great psychologist someday.

Go kick some ass.

--Brian

 

[Steel]

All the best, and good luck

 

[EveWasFramed]

Good luck, SG...we will miss you. (((hugs)))

 

[Minus]

Good luck

 

[Mr. Sir]

DONT GO!!!!!

 

[Zak]

Dearest friends at ALL,

And you are dear to me. You're like my second family. A big, extended, ever-varying family.

The time has come for Sophia to leave.

After doing a lot of soul-searching I've realized that this site is no longer benefitting me.
I'm pretty sure I have failed this semester at college and I'm sick to death of it. I am sick to death of crying over my grades and college every single semester.

I close my eyes and I try to imagine what I want the most out of life and i've realized that more than anything...even more than friends...I want to be a psychologist. Without it my life seems vastly empty and hollow.

In the past, i've used ALL to hide and avoid life. I ran. I hid because I saw college as a place to fail. I saw life as a place where I didnt really want to exist. A torture.

But now, now....I realize what would make life meaningful for me. I realize what would make me get out of bed, and smile.

It's not a love, nor a great large group of friends. But being able to sit down with another person that is troubled and showing them I care and trying my best to help them through rough patches in their life.

I love people. And I love the people of ALL.

But this is not where my future lies...

I refuse to hide anymore.

I request that a moderator delete my account.

With much love,

SophiaGrace

It would be very rude of me if I requested you to stay here instead of seeing the hope you have in your words. I mean after seeing such compassion, it would really be selfish of this forum to stop you. You are great Sophia. Wish you all the best for your future.

Take Care