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Sanal said:I completely agree with Steve. I would like to know what you girls feel when the guy who is with you, at the time when you go to bar, suddenly starts talking to another hot chick as in he is hitting on her and well... you are feeling ignored. Pfft yeah take the morals and walk away in sadness aye? Or to fight back to get him? Yeah like you said. It's okay if he does that yeah? Fine...
As one of these "girls" mentioned above, I'll say for the record that if I'm out with a guy and some other guy comes over and tries to hit on me I wouldn't be encouraging him along. Now as a rule, I don't like to be rude to anyone, but I definitely would brush him off. IMO, it'd be disrespectful of me to my boyfriend to flirt outrageously with a stranger, just as I'd be ******* rip-**** pissed if my guy was encouraging some some chick who was hitting on him while I was right there.
The fact that everyone is out in a bar drinking changes response and reaction though, like it or not. Generally, the more people drink, the flirtier they can get and the worse their judgment gets. If I were so drunk that I was behaving inappropriately, that's a sign that we need to go home. Really.
Of course I don't drink like that out in public anymore. Not in like 15 years, so it's a moot point.
And to the other poster who said that all women like having guys fight over them? Not so. Neither do all guys like having women fighting over them.
Yeah, some drama whores dig it but because they're narcissists, but that's not the whole population.
Now I would think that any of us would want our partner to stand up for us, have our back, but that boils down to respecting one another, which ought to be a mutual thing. It doesn't mean clocking some guy on the jaw or pulling some chick's hair out by the roots.