The current state of my life

[Professional Cannibal]

I'm a 28 year old borderline autistic man. I haven't had any real friends since I was maybe 13, I have a 100% failure rate with women and can't even attract a gold digger. I want to have a family of my own so when I finally got my life in such a state I applied to be a foster parent but was rejected. So I'm kinda left here stagnating in my life.

 

[kaetic]

I'm sorry you're having a rough time right now.
Did they give you any reasons for the rejection? Something you can fix or work on?
As far as women go, 90% aren't worth the bother. If you really want a relationship keep trying, you never know otherwise.

I think it's really great that you know you want to be a parent and are taking steps to make it happen.

I have had maybe one or two really good friends in my whole life, and all you really need is one. Don't give up on that. You're already reaching out, which is more than what I could do at your age.

Hang in there.

 

[Professional Cannibal]

I'm sorry you're having a rough time right now.
Did they give you any reasons for the rejection? Something you can fix or work on?
As far as women go, 90% aren't worth the bother. If you really want a relationship keep trying, you never know otherwise.

I was in the process, had meetings in my dining room and did all the training but when they finally did a full tour the house they were not happy with the cleaning. So when they told me that I burned the midnight oil to deep clean the house but that turned out to be futile because they called me a few days later saying they didn't want me.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Being a foster parent can be incredibly difficult. I know several people who fostered for a while, but couldn't bear the children going back to their addicted, abusive parents.

They are also usually pretty critical of who can foster children. Everything about you and your home has to be above board and they will nitpick. Now, I'm basing this off my own state....yours could be different.