okay, i've never done anything like this before... but it seems as if i have no one to talk to. let me start off by telling u all about me. i'm 25. i'm an emt, firefighter, and just recently opened up my own tattoo shop. i have a daughter who is four. i fell in love with a girl a while back. she was smart, pretty, and had goals and ambition. i totally admired her. i would do things like leave notes around the house that said sweet things so she would find them when she got home, i sent her on a scavenger hunt around the city, and to the place where we went on our first date when i proposed. little did i know she was even more insecure than me. the past five months have been hell. she literally breaks up with me on average three times a week... partly, i think, because she's so scared i'm going to leave her. everyone else has walked out on this girl. this has gone on for five months now, and i don't want to be like everyone else and walk out, but this is hurting me and my daughter both. I love this girl more than life itself... i asked her to be my wife... but I don't think my daughter deserves to be dragged through this. i know by me writing all this it makes her out to be a bad person, and she's not. and by all means, i'm not perfect either. she's a great person, but when is enough, enough? any advice?