I've used something similar in phpBB...it seems like it could be useful here. I hate to see communication break down, but it may be a preferable alternative for someone like lonely2beeme in that thread.
For now it is an experiment to see if it covers the expenses (I expect it will).
Also, depending on the results and feedback from it (and if I decide to keep them), it may enable me to improve aLonelyLife.com even further (ie. a better server etc.).
I have made Robin a moderator of the 'I am lonely' and the 'Feedback and news' forums to help me delete spam/troll/grosly insulting posts quicker. I will be hiring at least one more moderator very soon.
Fixed it once again aaaaaaaaaaaargh! Was only down for like 10 minutes though.
I have a monitoring application running on a development server which sends me a SMS whenever it goes down -- this generally helps me bring servers up quickly