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Hearmenow2012

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Hello again everyone. It has been a while since I have created a thread and I just started posting on here again yesterday, however I have still been visiting this site on a regular basis.

Anyway I have a question for all of you. What do you do in your spare time? I ask this because it seems like everyone is expected to drink alcohol these days and if you don't then you're crazy. (This has been societies way of thinking for a long time so it is nothing new)

Do you ever run out of things to do, how do you keep busy and do you ever feel like you are doing the same things day after day?
 
I kind of feel like things are the same thing day after day. But I try to just occupy my mind. Now, I play some zombies just to do something.
 
What is this 'Spare time?'

If I do get time to myself I should do some writing, or maybe have a go on my Xbox, or do some reading. I am very, very rarely bored.
 
read, do courses on Coursera, play guitar, practice singing, search the web for cures for my health troubles, start new projects, search the web for new ways to meet people, life is busy (no drinking) that "life is always the same" sensation is more with work and relationships . Also Zombies, trying to give that up otherwise it eats up the time for all the rest
 
Study Music, study the bible, workout, rock out with my band, rock out with my friends from church, rock out with friends not from church, spread the gospel, spend it with family
 
After work when I go home I watch tv, play a little DCUO, draw and post on forums. Same thing everyday, sure it gets boring but gives me something to do. That's the best kind of boring though, the things you always do that you can depend on to be there for you.
 
same thing every day for me too. get on the computer and play. since i play online.. random social interaction is always different.
 
Play Skyrim, avoid socializing with people and post on various forums.........Life is good.


Sci-Fi said:
After work when I go home I watch tv, play a little DCUO, draw and post on forums. Same thing everyday, sure it gets boring but gives me something to do. That's the best kind of boring though, the things you always do that you can depend on to be there for you.
Agreed
 
In my spare time I play loads of music, specialy love jamin with my friend shes such an amazing singer, God him self comes down from his throne just to sit & hear her sing
 
Hearmenow2012 said:
Hello again everyone. It has been a while since I have created a thread and I just started posting on here again yesterday, however I have still been visiting this site on a regular basis.

Anyway I have a question for all of you. What do you do in your spare time? I ask this because it seems like everyone is expected to drink alcohol these days and if you don't then you're crazy. (This has been societies way of thinking for a long time so it is nothing new)

Do you ever run out of things to do, how do you keep busy and do you ever feel like you are doing the same things day after day?

play golf 3 times a week
take photo's when I can
watch tv
read
surf the web a lot, reading up stuff eg football news
 
I think I'm pretty boring to be honest. I don't drink. I don't smoke. I don't take drugs. I don't do much socializing. I tend to spend my time walking, taking photos, watching TV, playing multiplayer games, visiting relatives and 'talking' on forums.
 
SophiaGrace said:
does posting on alonelylife.com count as something to do in my free time?

Same. Nowadays I can't be bothered socialising with my family or doing other things with other people. :\ Just prefer keeping to myself and talk to you guys!! Just the moods I guess.
 
Thank you everyone for your posts. I appreciate it. I love listening to music, I enjoy watching movies and playing video games even though I've played and seen them too many times (Nowadays however I feel like I don't want to watch any of my films due to the reason I have already stated); I do enjoy reading from time to time (I picked up 4 new books from the Library yesterday, but I don't really drink anymore due to the comedown during a drinking session, I see it as a waste of money, I don't like the morning after effects either and besides I don't see my friends all that often anyway.

I feel like me and my friends have drifted apart over the years for the most part as it seems like they are busy doing their own thing and I haven't really been able to make many friends that I actually spend time with. I do have some productive days, however they are few and far between. I have expressed an interest in volunteering so maybe that will change things for me.

For the most part each day is virtually the same.


SophiaGrace said:
does posting on alonelylife.com count as something to do in my free time?

Yes I'd say that counts. At least you are taking the time to try and help others and you are being open with us all.

On a side note I think it's awesome that you like the band Breaking Benjamin because I do too. :)
 
Cavey said:
I think I'm pretty boring to be honest. I don't drink. I don't smoke. I don't take drugs. I don't do much socializing. I tend to spend my time walking, taking photos, watching TV, playing multiplayer games, visiting relatives and 'talking' on forums.

you are not boring at all !
 
duff said:
Cavey said:
I think I'm pretty boring to be honest. I don't drink. I don't smoke. I don't take drugs. I don't do much socializing. I tend to spend my time walking, taking photos, watching TV, playing multiplayer games, visiting relatives and 'talking' on forums.

you are not boring at all !

Thanks for the vote of confidence. I really feel it though. The most interesting thing I do some days is deciding what to make for dinner :p
 
Cavey said:
duff said:
Cavey said:
I think I'm pretty boring to be honest. I don't drink. I don't smoke. I don't take drugs. I don't do much socializing. I tend to spend my time walking, taking photos, watching TV, playing multiplayer games, visiting relatives and 'talking' on forums.

you are not boring at all !

Thanks for the vote of confidence. I really feel it though. The most interesting thing I do some days is deciding what to make for dinner :p

nothing good about taking drugs, smoking or drinking !
 
duff said:
Cavey said:
duff said:
Cavey said:
I think I'm pretty boring to be honest. I don't drink. I don't smoke. I don't take drugs. I don't do much socializing. I tend to spend my time walking, taking photos, watching TV, playing multiplayer games, visiting relatives and 'talking' on forums.

you are not boring at all !

Thanks for the vote of confidence. I really feel it though. The most interesting thing I do some days is deciding what to make for dinner :p

nothing good about taking drugs, smoking or drinking !

I agree and who doesn't love food. Yesterday all I could think about was getting home and making my tea. It was something that I've wanted to eat for a while but I haven't been able to due to things going on such as being at my dads and having a BBQ.
 

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