I beg to disagree with you on that assumption that no one here was ever loved? Not all of us has been through the humility of being eased out by blood family, as I know very well. I have been nurtured from the ground up by parents and family under the Catholic way of raising children. It is the fault of children themselves who most of the time does not follow the foot steps of their elders that's why there are a lot of depressed people around.
I feel sorry for people who's parents didn't give much attention to their children.
I hope when you have kids of your own you would not follow in the footsteps of the people who didn't loved you. because that will mean you are not being human. It has to stop with you, and you do things differently if only to change things.