What is the stupidest thing you have heard from people ?

[Sameer]

Recently i chatted with a person i know from online quite a longtime before but didn't talked with her for many days. She remembered few things about me. When i said what things i don't like and i am being lonely, she says do you hate people ?

That is one of the most funny and ridiculous reply i have ever seen. I am not angry or upset for that.There are a lot of things in this world a person could like and hate.I just mentioned a few of them which i don't like and she says that i don't like a lot of things. Now that is called as judging.It's just surprising for me how there are some people who are that much stupid.Whether you are lonely or have anxiety or depression,people like her think that you have that problem because the fact that you hate people.Lmao. Those so called over socializing people always think that what they do is right and if they find people who are opposite,it is weird for them.The reason they are idiots is because the fact that they just can't even understand that people have different characters.

 

[VanillaCreme]

Well, just as people who you believe over socialize think that what they do is right, you believe you're right because you don't over socialize. What's the difference? It's just the other side of the fence. To be honest, neither over or under socializing is wrong. And neither is right. I don't think her inquiry was stupid. Perhaps not as well thought out as questions should be. You call these over socializing people idiots, and that's just as judgmental as someone asking you if you hate people. They're not idiots, and you're not hateful. If you dislike being called something you're not, perhaps it's a good idea not to do the same to others.

 

[Case]

Recently i chatted with a person i know from online quite a longtime before but didn't talked with her for many days. She remembered few things about me. When i said what things i don't like and i am being lonely, she says do you hate people ?

I didn't see the question, nor the questioner, as "stupid." It's a question, not an assertion or an assumption. I think a simple "No," calmly stated, would have sufficed.

I agree with VanillaCreme.

 

[Sameer]

Recently i chatted with a person i know from online quite a longtime before but didn't talked with her for many days. She remembered few things about me. When i said what things i don't like and i am being lonely, she says do you hate people ?

I didn't see the question, nor the questioner, as "stupid." It's a question, not an assertion or an assumption. I think a simple "No," calmly stated, would have sufficed.
I agree with VanillaCreme.

She also said that i don't like a lot of things just because i talked about few things which i don't like. She is not the only example.In real life,some relatives blamed me for not being social when i suffered from anxiety those days.Most sociable people would say, 'go out and socialize' to a person who has anxiety or lonely. That is a joke,because they have never experienced that.There is a difference between 'most' and 'all'.
Anyway,i talked about this somewhere and i got positive response which is correct as i expected.So doesn't matter if anyone here supports me or not.

 

[Case]

Anyway,i talked about this somewhere and i got positive response which is correct as i expected.So doesn't matter if anyone here supports me or not.

Since you seem to favor the positive response you received elsewhere, it appears that "support" actually does matter to you. There's no shame in that. Just don't be surprised that some people may disagree with you from time to time. That's part of being human.

 

[VanillaCreme]

She also said that i don't like a lot of things just because i talked about few things which i don't like. She is not the only example.In real life,some relatives blamed me for not being social when i suffered from anxiety those days.Most sociable people would say, 'go out and socialize' to a person who has anxiety or lonely. That is a joke,because they have never experienced that.There is a difference between 'most' and 'all'.
Anyway,i talked about this somewhere and i got positive response which is correct as i expected.So doesn't matter if anyone here supports me or not.

Maybe to her, a handful of peanuts is enough. If you listed off 5 things that you didn't like, and she thought that was a lot, that's on her to think. What does it matter to you what she thinks is a lot? It's not really a matter of having support. It's a matter of you being exactly what you think of these other more social people simply because your feet landed on the other side of the fence.

You can be less social if you choose to be, and there's nothing wrong with that. There's no "blaming" involved, really. If other people think you need to be more social, then that's on them. It's your choice if you want to be. If you decide not to be, then more power to you. But can you honestly say that you weren't harsh on this girl, or others, simply because she has a point of view that you don't agree with?

If you just want someone to justify you being harsh or negative to someone just because they have a different view that you don't see eye-to-eye with, I think you're barking up the wrong tree. You can't possibly know what others have gone through or how they have ever felt, in the same sense that they can't do that to you. Being a bird of a different feather doesn't mean that one has to be coarse and unpleasant to other birds.

 

[Sameer]

Anyway,i talked about this somewhere and i got positive response which is correct as i expected.So doesn't matter if anyone here supports me or not.

Since you seem to favor the positive response you received elsewhere, it appears that "support" actually does matter to you. There's no shame in that. Just don't be surprised that some people may disagree with you from time to time. That's part of being human.

Now that's a sensitive and better response.Thanks.Absolutely i know about which you said that some people may disagree and it's a part of human being.Sure,i know about that and also i know that the worst creatures ever to live on this planet are human beings.

 

[Case]

Sure,i know about that and also i know that the worst creatures ever to live on this planet are human beings.

I think the worst creatures are common house cats. It's been proven that they want to destroy the universe. At least, that's what Mittens told me.

 

[Walley]

Sure,i know about that and also i know that the worst creatures ever to live on this planet are human beings.

it's that type of statement that may have led her to ask that question..
sometimes it's easy to see inside someone by the little things they say. and if someone brings up negatives more often than positives, of course others will question.
also, just by the fact that you took offense to the question and it stood out to you, kind of makes it seem like she touched a nerve. like the ol' statement "thou doth protest too much"?

 

[ladyforsaken]

I don't think it's very nice to call someone stupid. That's also being judgemental towards them, when you think they're stupid for responding that way. Maybe she was innocent and really wondering the question with her reply. What is wrong with enquiring? There are reasons why people respond that way, it may make them seem shallow or ignorant, but .. anyway, my point is, it's not very nice to call someone stupid like that.

Also, human beings are born lovely and innocent. The traits and characteristics they develop or inherit each doesn't make all of the human race horrible.

Most of the human species on this forum are such awesome people I've met and made friends with. There is no worst creature to ever live on this planet. And there is no "best". It's just the way it is. Stop judging so much.

 

[Sameer]

Also, human beings are born lovely and innocent. The traits and characteristics they develop or inherit each doesn't make all of the human race horrible.

There is no worst creature to ever live on this planet. And there is no "best". It's just the way it is. Stop judging so much.

Really ?
That is why some Humans kill each other and kill animals.Destroying the planet..etc etc.Right,really best creatures.
Really surprising to see weird/rude comments from especially 2 people from a forum like this.Made a mistake by starting a post here.

 

[user 115627]

Recently i chatted with a person i know from online quite a longtime before but didn't talked with her for many days. She remembered few things about me. When i said what things i don't like and i am being lonely, she says do you hate people ?

That is one of the most funny and ridiculous reply i have ever seen. I am not angry or upset for that.There are a lot of things in this world a person could like and hate.I just mentioned a few of them which i don't like and she says that i don't like a lot of things. Now that is called as judging.It's just surprising for me how there are some people who are that much stupid.

Yeah, that's kind of a strange reaction from her side. At least that's what it looks like from my point of view. But like Case said: It was still a question, not a statement. I don't know what or how much you told her in detail that could explain her reaction. Regardless, don't you think you're overinterpreting this random (maybe just ignorant) question?

And I'll keep my hands off the human ethics topic...wrong time and wrong place.

 

[VanillaCreme]

Also, human beings are born lovely and innocent. The traits and characteristics they develop or inherit each doesn't make all of the human race horrible.

There is no worst creature to ever live on this planet. And there is no "best". It's just the way it is. Stop judging so much.

Really ?
That is why some Humans kill each other and kill animals.Destroying the planet..etc etc.Right,really best creatures.
Really surprising to see weird/rude comments from especially 2 people from a forum like this.Made a mistake by starting a post here.

There's no mistake. You're more than welcome to post or reply however you'd like, within reasonable measures. None of the responses you've received in this thread of yours were rude in any way, shape or form. You just think they're incorrect, so there must be something wrong with them, when really, there's nothing wrong with them. Just because you don't like what something is doesn't mean it's wrong. And you agreeing with something doesn't mean it's the right way. It just means you agree with it.

Anyway, best of luck to you and your friend. I hope she didn't take offense to a friend calling her names for asking a simple question.

 

[Sameer]

Recently i chatted with a person i know from online quite a longtime before but didn't talked with her for many days. She remembered few things about me. When i said what things i don't like and i am being lonely, she says do you hate people ?

That is one of the most funny and ridiculous reply i have ever seen. I am not angry or upset for that.There are a lot of things in this world a person could like and hate.I just mentioned a few of them which i don't like and she says that i don't like a lot of things. Now that is called as judging.It's just surprising for me how there are some people who are that much stupid.

Yeah, that's kind of a strange reaction from her side. At least that's what it looks like from my point of view. But like Case said: It was still a question, not a statement. I don't know what or how much you told her in detail that could explain her reaction. Regardless, don't you think you're overinterpreting this random (maybe just ignorant) question?

And I'll keep my hands off the human ethics topic...wrong time and wrong place.

That's right,it's a strange reaction from her side. In another site when i talked about this,a women said that i was right and that our society doesn't respect the introverts much.That is what i am talking about.Just because that women supported me,i am not going to say she is good than any person who replied to this post.But if i had a mistake on my side,i will admit it.I have no problem in that but as for this topic,i don't have a mistake on my side.
For example,if a person gets bullied by someone.This person have the rights to talk bad about the one who bullied him/her.In this site as well as in some other sites,there are multiple posts from people who mentioned how they were bullied by other people.Here 2 people willingly saying that i am judging,that is very funny.It seems like may be those 2 women had some bad experiences with men.I am in a member in some sites and i have never seen these kinds of insensitive replies.Whatever it is,i will never start a post here again and it will be nice if some moderator closes this thread.

 

[VanillaCreme]

That's right,it's a strange reaction from her side. In another site when i talked about this,a women said that i was right and that our society doesn't respect the introverts much.That is what i am talking about.Just because that women supported me,i am not going to say she is good than any person who replied to this post.But if i had a mistake on my side,i will admit it.I have no problem in that but as for this topic,i don't have a mistake on my side.
For example,if a person gets bullied by someone.This person have the rights to talk bad about the one who bullied him/her.In this site as well as in some other sites,there are multiple posts from people who mentioned how they were bullied by other people.Here 2 people willingly saying that i am judging,that is very funny.It seems like may be those 2 women had some bad experiences with men.I am in a member in some sites and i have never seen these kinds of insensitive replies.Whatever it is,i will never start a post here again and it will be nice if some moderator closes this thread.

Next time I jump to call someone names simply because they asked a question (good or bad), I'll consider myself insensitive. But until that day comes, I don't consider any of the posts or replies in this thread insensitive. You're just looking for some sort of justification, and I'm sorry, people won't agree with you just because you think you're right.

Like I said before, best of luck to you. Closed by request.