What to do when U Love Someone So Much It Hurts ?

[Enchantress]

I Believe that I am addicted to someone.There's a guy with me at school that I love to pieces.Thing is,I don't even know him at all,not even do I know his name.All I know is that I'm addicted to him.Just remembering him makes my heart ache because I miss him too much .It's both a nice and very frustrating feeling.He passes infront of me and I'm caught in a trance even after he's out of sight and I do not hear anything anybody is telling me.Just following him with my eyes even when he's gone far like im hypnotized till he's out of sight and even then I need to be pinched to be brought back to life.I have no idea when did this start,I used to see him before at school often too but I feel like this whole addiction thingy has developed bit by bit atfirst I didnt feel like that,just thought that the guy was cute.Now after watching him among his friends and playing volleyball and so on for a couple of months I feel like I know him though I don't.I mean I've become familiar with his moves and voice and so but never talked to him personally and now I'm addicted to him.He's like my favourite brand of heroine (lol joking I dont do drugs its just a quote off of a book).Seeing him just makes my soul flutter inside of me and I get that nice stingy feeling,really don't know.
I think he also likes me,a bit,probably not as much as I do but yeah whenever I pass him by we just hold eye contact forever,and I'm locked into his (ofcourse) charming gaze I'm mesmerized.I'm sure one of those times I'll lose it and go there and hug him infront of I don't care who lol
I think you can probably see from the way I'm writing how I must be crazy about him which is true and I do not know whether this will go away after a while like a crush or whether I'm love struck and if so then this is definitely the first time cause I've never felt so strongly about anyone.I think that I really love him.Would u do anything for someone you don't know? Well I would....Yeah...crazy :rolleyes2:

Okay ,enough,haha What I need to know guys is how to talk to him.How?? Gotta do something about it.Enough silent torture for me.Teenage hormones are hard to control ya know.

 

[PoWer2tHePeOpLE]

lets see... let me take myself back to 'love from afar' as a 15 yr old boy.. now i'll imagine i am a 15 yr old girl so i can give you advice.. nope.. just can't imagine that hard..

maybe start off with, "hi" ?

is he ever alone? strike when he's by himself.. less scrutiny that way..

now i'll leave it to others closer to your age to help you

 

[Enchantress]

Hehe P2P You crack me up Don't try to pretend ur 15 *and* a girl haha. You just won't succeed
Yeah I guess he is sometimes by himself.Sure thing it would be easier if he was alone.you know u just can't get into the middle of a crowd of friends,walk to a stranger and start talking to him Lol .I really need to figure something out.Hehe xD

 

[Sarpirus]

Walk up to him and ask him his name, then tell him yours, then say it was good to meet him or good to know. Then walk away telling him to have a good day. Next few times you see him address him by name "Hello [name]". Then after the exchanges of hellos become common start talking to him, ask him what he likes etc, see if you can relate but don't try too hard. After you have built up rapport, suggest an activity, like throwing rocks at trees or whatever you chillins are into today.

Umm, you should be able to take it from there. Just remember, most guys are pretty easy. Be yourself though you don't want a guy that likes you for who you're really good at faking.

 

[Enchantress]

Thanks alot for the advice.I can't do that though =( Quite hard to know someone when there's nothing in common between you.I don't know what will happen the coming few weeks.I'll make sure I'm standing alone when he is though.Guess that would make it much more possible that he speaks to me.I'll try to if he doesn't anyway.Damn it,he's beautiful.Looks alot like Gerard Way of My chemical Romance if you know them Heeh now I have to study for my 8th week exams on Thursday.Wish me luck =] Thanks all.I'll let you know if anything happens.

 

[Coverage]

Even though I'm a guy I think I can relate to how your feeling. I had basically the same type of feelings for a girl back when I was about 16. I wouldn't suggest standing around by yourself hoping he will happen to come up and talk to you, because 9 out of 10 times its just not going to happen.

Chances are that you will have to approach him and Sarpirus said, just start out saying "Hi, How are you doing". That way you will then at least be in his mind. After that start smiling and saying "hey" if you happen to pass him in the hallways.

Unless he does it first, then the hard part will be approaching him and finding something to have an actual casual conversation about. (school, sports, people, ect.), but if you want to go anywhere with him then directly approaching him eventually may be the only way to guage if hes interested or not.

 

[Enchantress]

Unless he does it first, then the hard part will be approaching him and finding something to have an actual casual conversation about. (school, sports, people, ect.), but if you want to go anywhere with him then directly approaching him eventually may be the only way to guage if hes interested or not.

Well,yes,I agree,this is by far the hardest part,to actually talk to him for the first time.And yeah,it is such a long shot that I try to get him talk to me just because im alone.I was thinking since I seem to run into him alot at the cafe when I'm getting something to drink or so then maybe I'd say hi if he is right next to me buying something too.That seems casual enough I guess.Today I was just about to say Hi in that exact situation when a girl popped right in between us.Okay I was pissed for a while lol xD

 

[Coverage]

Unless he does it first, then the hard part will be approaching him and finding something to have an actual casual conversation about. (school, sports, people, ect.), but if you want to go anywhere with him then directly approaching him eventually may be the only way to guage if hes interested or not.

Well,yes,I agree,this is by far the hardest part,to actually talk to him for the first time.And yeah,it is such a long shot that I try to get him talk to me just because im alone.I was thinking since I seem to run into him alot at the cafe when I'm getting something to drink or so then maybe I'd say hi if he is right next to me buying something too.That seems casual enough I guess.Today I was just about to say Hi in that exact situation when a girl popped right in between us.Okay I was pissed for a while lol xD

heh, yeah I can see that getting annoying.

The cafe would be the perfect setting to start talking to him some. I hope it works out for you. Just remember that if you wait too long then it will eventually be too late (I learned that one myself). Good luck to you.