What you guys should really do before any girl...

[IgnoredOne]

Don't be fake; Keep it real. It will happen when it happens.

Destiny will make it happen. Keep sitting around on the couch - life, happiness and excitement await!

There is a reason why I dispute that kind of thinking.

 

[user 9172]

Don't be fake; Keep it real. It will happen when it happens.

Destiny will make it happen. Keep sitting around on the couch - life, happiness and excitement await!

There is a reason why I dispute that kind of thinking.

I didn't say sit around isolated from other people; Just not to do things solely for the purpose of trying to impress women.

 

[Yeah!]

Keep it real is 100% correct. This is something I've thought about a lot. There are things about myself that essentially make me up, and without them I'm not really me. Some might like them, some might not. If I attempt to get rid of them or hide them in order to get a chick, sooner or later they'll creep back in, or resentment will build up. It's important for someone to want you for you, not for the person you're pretending to be. How long can you keep up an act? A week? A month? The rest of your life? It's far more fulfilling if someone enjoys you for all of your foibles.

 

[IgnoredOne]

I didn't say sit around isolated from other people; Just not to do things solely for the purpose of trying to impress women.

Indeed, you should never do /anything/ for the purpose of impressing women. This doesn't mean that personal responsibility is any less important before a relationship, however. That is what a car can represent in the US, and what has been the entire point of this post.

 

[nerdygirl]

Do you ever get the feeling that people read only the very first post... maybe only a couple lines of it... take whatever meaning they choose... and then run with it? And then, do you ever feel like maybe you're really weird for not doing that? This thread totally makes me feel like a weirdo.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Been with plenty of women. They!re all differnt. Want diiferent thigns from life. Waht different things out of a relationship.....
" SHOULD" is one those concept that gets people into box in thinking and living. Then into controlling issues..

Its like saying women should know how to swallow be she gets into a relationship.

a SUGGESTION ???

Fear is just another human emotions... Everybody have fears...even the chick swaolllowing is fearful choking ...

 

[Limlim]

You should tell us more about all the women you had sex with Lonesome Crow. I mean, don't hold anything back.

 

[IgnoredOne]

Do you ever get the feeling that people read only the very first post... maybe only a couple lines of it... take whatever meaning they choose... and then run with it? And then, do you ever feel like maybe you're really weird for not doing that? This thread totally makes me feel like a weirdo.

A valuable insight in how the brains of most people work. How dare you look before you leap! Once I thought about making my posts clearer, kind of like idiotproofing systems, but then I realized that's not nearly as fun.

 

[Badjedidude]

You should tell us more about all the women you had sex with Lonesome Crow. I mean, don't hold anything back.

MY LORD, MAN, WHAT HAVE YOU DONNNNNEEEE????

 

[VanillaCreme]

Haha Jedi and Lim.

 

[SophiaGrace]

Do you ever get the feeling that people read only the very first post... maybe only a couple lines of it... take whatever meaning they choose... and then run with it? And then, do you ever feel like maybe you're really weird for not doing that? This thread totally makes me feel like a weirdo.

I admit to being lazy like this at times.

 

[user 9172]

I didn't say sit around isolated from other people; Just not to do things solely for the purpose of trying to impress women.

Indeed, you should never do /anything/ for the purpose of impressing women. This doesn't mean that personal responsibility is any less important before a relationship, however. That is what a car can represent in the US, and what has been the entire point of this post.

Personal responsibility is all well and good, but I was actually taking issue with the suggestion the fact that you were drawing equivalence between the ability to obtain and maintain a car and the ability to obtain and maintain a relationship; Apples and oranges.

If someone has a car for their own sense of personal responsibility, that's one motivation. If someone has a car because they believe that they must do so in order to then proceed to get a girlfriend then that's an entirely different motivation. Convincing oneself that he is relationship material is equivalent to trying to convince a potential partner.

Let's say you learn to drive and get your car then straight away you meet a girl. You've only just bought your first car and you're telling her about it. She asks you, "Why did you decide to learn to drive?" Are you going to be honest and say that you felt you needed the responsibility of car ownership in order to feel capable of getting in to and sustaining a relationship? I doubt it. You might say that you felt like it would be a big personal responsibility that you felt ready to take on; It would be a half-truth.

You can get from A to B by way of 24 other letters in reverse if you want and then pretend you already knew B came right after A, or you can just get on with it.

 

[IgnoredOne]

If someone has a car for their own sense of personal responsibility, that's one motivation. If someone has a car because they believe that they must do so in order to then proceed to get a girlfriend then that's an entirely different motivation. Convincing oneself that he is relationship material is equivalent to trying to convince a potential partner.

Let's say you learn to drive and get your car then straight away you meet a girl. You've only just bought your first car and you're telling her about it. She asks you, "Why did you decide to learn to drive?" Are you going to be honest and say that you felt you needed the responsibility of car ownership in order to feel capable of getting in to and sustaining a relationship? I doubt it. You might say that you felt like it would be a big personal responsibility that you felt ready to take on; It would be a half-truth.

Honestly? I've said things similar to "I felt that I needed X before I had a relationship" to a girl before, and in my experience, the reaction hasn't been negative. The most I've ever gotten was an eyeroll, at worst.

The reverse is a lot less pleasant. The below, by the way, is also another direct quote, between two female friends of mine.

"He doesn't have a car or a job? Oh. *titter* I'm sure that he'll get his head together soon."

The way I see it, the first sentence is subtle mockery, while the second was spoke with a definitely patronizing tone. I won't go into female social dynamics which I can't say to know, being male, but there's definitely a vague sense of status and social hiearchy as well. Taken together, though, there's seems a strong message to that she's basically tell the other girl that 'your boyfriend, therefore by extention you, is **** right now.'

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Materailism mentality...

Depending on where one lives an automobiles can be a necesscity or not

Food and shelter are man.s basic needs. .

I also know plenty of dudes that have a job and a ride..they still cant get dates or women.

Yes. Ive met some women that would say those things to me. Women that wants me to play a role of providing for them. Some more high maintenance than others.

Ive also met other women that could care less what car I drive or what i do for a living. They also make more money than me and can provide for themselves. Both parties being self supporting on a finacal level.

I prefer women thats more self supporting on many levels...emotionally, mentally and spiritually. The many other dynamics of having a healthy relationship.

Then theres the SEX. And romance. All women r different. They all get off in their own ways.

Driving a car is alot different than driving a woman...

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Of course Ive own sports cars or a nice rides. Held high manage positions jobs. Plenty of women flock to me even more. Howvever the material pocession I own is not the core part of me...just the icying on the cake.

I attract women with or with jobs or rides.

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Ive also owned 20 guitars @ one time in my life, half of which I didnt played....

Its my ability to play music itself that makes me a musician.. Not the $2000 guitar.

Cars, guitars..etc ..etc are just tools
I used or to express myself or help me. Theyre not who I am as a person.

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I also have many talents...such as tapping the G string on my guitar or women. As talented or skilled I am with some these attributes....My skills dosnt necessary make who I am as a persons...I HAVE skills..
Such as I have social skills or skills to resolve a mathematical equation..

 

[nerdygirl]

I'm still trying to figure out why somebody would go into detail with this girl about how he just bought his first car. If some guy was to start talking to me about that, my eyes would glaze over. It's enough to be aware you have the car, without the story.

 

[IgnoredOne]

I'm still trying to figure out why somebody would go into detail with this girl about how he just bought his first car. If some guy was to start talking to me about that, my eyes would glaze over. It's enough to be aware you have the car, without the story.

Because you're like me. Like me like me likem. You want to know my life story. You want to know everything about me. Let me begin by telling you about my toilet habits...

 

[Lonesome Crow]

I'm still trying to figure out why somebody would go into detail with this girl about how he just bought his first car. If some guy was to start talking to me about that, my eyes would glaze over. It's enough to be aware you have the car, without the story.

becuase this thread pretains to MEN.
Just differrnt tactic or stategy of some men thinks how they should live thier life life or how they think they might be successful of GETTING Women.
the car and money..are simply just BAIT ..no matter its presented.

Its the same reason why most women Ive had encounters with had wazoooo of outfits or shoes.

I enjoy women in various outfits.

Im also smart enough to say..".wow sweetie You make the outift look good or that outfit looks good on you...

Not " the dress makes you look good"

NOTICE the slight difference.

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Ive also been accused of having a silver tounge....

If you and I happened to meet face to face...you would seriously fall in love with me...

I also have the magic touch...
Im the magic man...with magic hands

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Im also a hansome man. All the women I dated or been with say so or I get compliments all the time...thats why some women will hit on me. Women fines me sexy.
So having that experince over and over again and still getting re enforce..i have less doupt or it easier for me to belive Im the **** or chicks magnet.
Plus I aslo still have a very firm sexy body. Plus my easy going personality makes it easier for women to approch me, relax and jsut be themselve

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Plus Im one of those people thats in love with Love...I love being in Love.
I love the romance and have skills of maing romance out of nothing..

Plus Im also very sexually experinced. I love getting women off...Ill light you up like a Xmas tree and have you walking around glowing for days after having sex or making love with me. Most women gets dizzy after having sex with me and get attached to me.
Plenty of women had expressed to me they cream in hteir pants just talking to me...or when they masture bait..they think about me....

what the hell dose it have to do with driving a car or having a job???
Nothing......

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The challenge in my love life is not so much that I cant get women....
Its one particular relationship with a particular person. Shes just like me in alot of ways...Shes a very attractive woman. Men will throw themselve at her....

Our daughter has both of us in her.. Men and women finds our daughter stunningly beautiful or hawt..hawt..hawt.

She struggles with love and the meaning of it. Just some of the myteries of life and challenges everyone have.
Guys are going to have to throw a lot more than a job and a car at my daughter...when lear jets rides and drinkig $1000 wine bottles is the norm to her.

 

[SofiasMami]

Oh, LC, LC, LC. You are a funny one, for sure.

Teresa

 

[SophiaGrace]

Oh, LC, LC, LC. You are a funny one, for sure.

Teresa

This forum wouldn't be the same without him would it?

 

[SofiasMami]

Oh, LC, LC, LC. You are a funny one, for sure.

Teresa

This forum wouldn't be the same without him would it?

Very entertaining, for sure