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karenak
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I really need some help here!
I am 40 years old, pretty well educated (dizzy at times) and not horrendous looking but i am a total misfit when it comes to friends and social situations.
I have never really found it easy to make friends and dont seem to keep them too well. I always seem to think people wont like me anyway or will prefer others to me. I avoid social situations when they occur as i think i will be the one with the empty seat next to me and people wouldnt care if i went or not. I am married with two teenage children i love to bits and i really dont want them to grow up and leave home. I worry that then my husband will leave me to find someone more fun and a better social life. I dont have anyone i could ring and say fancy going out for a drink and everyone else does seem to so whats wrong with me. I just want a really close friend to go shopping with/gossip with etc. Any suggestions
I am 40 years old, pretty well educated (dizzy at times) and not horrendous looking but i am a total misfit when it comes to friends and social situations.
I have never really found it easy to make friends and dont seem to keep them too well. I always seem to think people wont like me anyway or will prefer others to me. I avoid social situations when they occur as i think i will be the one with the empty seat next to me and people wouldnt care if i went or not. I am married with two teenage children i love to bits and i really dont want them to grow up and leave home. I worry that then my husband will leave me to find someone more fun and a better social life. I dont have anyone i could ring and say fancy going out for a drink and everyone else does seem to so whats wrong with me. I just want a really close friend to go shopping with/gossip with etc. Any suggestions