Why try

[Drew88]

Women depressed the heck out of me. You try to start a conversation with them and you get shoot down, by shoot down, or even worst ignored. Then you do find someone to talk, all you get back are yea, idk, yup, yea, etc back. Wtf? I keep going back to what I said before, Love is a joke and finding it, well that an even bigger joke.

 

[Regumika]

typical girls love to talk, hates to listen.

If you think finding love is easy.. then the world would be a much better place. dont give up though. Keep trying and see who listens. anyone that doesnt aren't worth your time.

as to why? because in the end it is SO worth the search.

 

[ucxb]

Try to relax about finding love, Drew88, and do not let failed conversations depress you.

 

[perfanoff]

Women depressed the heck out of me. You try to start a conversation with them and you get shoot down, by shoot down, or even worst ignored. Then you do find someone to talk, all you get back are yea, idk, yup, yea, etc back. Wtf? I keep going back to what I said before, Love is a joke and finding it, well that an even bigger joke.

They're just not that into you.

 

[Drew88]

Try to relax about finding love, Drew88, and do not let failed conversations depress you.

Kind of hard

Women depressed the heck out of me. You try to start a conversation with them and you get shoot down, by shoot down, or even worst ignored. Then you do find someone to talk, all you get back are yea, idk, yup, yea, etc back. Wtf? I keep going back to what I said before, Love is a joke and finding it, well that an even bigger joke.

They're just not that into you.

Thats the story of every woman I interact with

typical girls love to talk, hates to listen.

If you think finding love is easy.. then the world would be a much better place. dont give up though. Keep trying and see who listens. anyone that doesnt aren't worth your time.

as to why? because in the end it is SO worth the search.

What the point if you can not enjoy it?
I brought up the fact of my health before (kidneys) and how I feel I do not have a long time that at the very least I can enjoy. And for sure my depression doesn't help that.

I am no where, where I wanted to be at my. I wanted to have a family by now, in fact I am the age that my dad was when I was born. Which also depresses the Hell out of me.

I want my own child sooo badly, and I am afraid I will never have one. And if by some chance I do, I fear I may not be there for the child. I know how cruel faith can be. It brought tears to my eyes last night.

 

[BrokenInside]

Why not??

I am sorry you had bad experiences. All women are not alike!

 

[Edward W]

“Do or do not... there is no try.” - Yoda

The right girl is worth it.

 

[perfanoff]

Try to relax about finding love, Drew88, and do not let failed conversations depress you.

Kind of hard

Women depressed the heck out of me. You try to start a conversation with them and you get shoot down, by shoot down, or even worst ignored. Then you do find someone to talk, all you get back are yea, idk, yup, yea, etc back. Wtf? I keep going back to what I said before, Love is a joke and finding it, well that an even bigger joke.

They're just not that into you.

Thats the story of every woman I interact with

typical girls love to talk, hates to listen.

If you think finding love is easy.. then the world would be a much better place. dont give up though. Keep trying and see who listens. anyone that doesnt aren't worth your time.

as to why? because in the end it is SO worth the search.

What the point if you can not enjoy it?
I brought up the fact of my health before (kidneys) and how I feel I do not have a long time that at the very least I can enjoy. And for sure my depression doesn't help that.

I am no where, where I wanted to be at my. I wanted to have a family by now, in fact I am the age that my dad was when I was born. Which also depresses the Hell out of me.

I want my own child sooo badly, and I am afraid I will never have one. And if by some chance I do, I fear I may not be there for the child. I know how cruel faith can be. It brought tears to my eyes last night.

So you're talking to the wrong women?

Anyway, I strongly feel you're far from ready for a healthy relationship of any kind right now.

 

[Drew88]

Why not??

I am sorry you had bad experiences. All women are not alike!

I know no woman are alike (obviously).

Just annoys the hell out of me.
I'm the oldest, out of siblings and the least progress.
My 2 years younger sister, is married......with a 6 yo........expecting her 2nd child.
And my 5 years younger bro is engaged.
They spend so much time with their other, and when I was with my ex she couldn't do that.
every time I see that they have that, I feel more lonely then what I am.

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“Do or do not... there is no try.” - Yoda

The right girl is worth it.

Funny caz I use that quote

Try to relax about finding love, Drew88, and do not let failed conversations depress you.

Kind of hard

Women depressed the heck out of me. You try to start a conversation with them and you get shoot down, by shoot down, or even worst ignored. Then you do find someone to talk, all you get back are yea, idk, yup, yea, etc back. Wtf? I keep going back to what I said before, Love is a joke and finding it, well that an even bigger joke.

They're just not that into you.

Thats the story of every woman I interact with

typical girls love to talk, hates to listen.

If you think finding love is easy.. then the world would be a much better place. dont give up though. Keep trying and see who listens. anyone that doesnt aren't worth your time.

as to why? because in the end it is SO worth the search.

What the point if you can not enjoy it?
I brought up the fact of my health before (kidneys) and how I feel I do not have a long time that at the very least I can enjoy. And for sure my depression doesn't help that.

I am no where, where I wanted to be at my. I wanted to have a family by now, in fact I am the age that my dad was when I was born. Which also depresses the Hell out of me.

I want my own child sooo badly, and I am afraid I will never have one. And if by some chance I do, I fear I may not be there for the child. I know how cruel faith can be. It brought tears to my eyes last night.

So you're talking to the wrong women?

Anyway, I strongly feel you're far from ready for a healthy relationship of any kind right now.

Screw you. I glad you have that luxury, I do not. You may not feel like I am not ready.....so I guess I have to sit on my hand......becoming more bitter....more and more depress....and hope I don't kill myself if my condition doesn't kill me 1st. There is not purpose in me living, especially if no one is Dependant on me

 

[perfanoff]

edit: whatever
I'm just going to ignore you. Good luck guilt tripping people for your comfort.. not.

 

[Drew88]

Oh I'm sorry dude, how about a ******* to make you feel better?
........

*insert choice word* you

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edit: whatever
I'm just going to ignore you. Good luck guilt tripping people for your comfort.. not.

People like you are the reason people like me kill ourselves.

You opinion will be greatly missed.........NOT

 

[Rosebolt]

edit: whatever
I'm just going to ignore you. Good luck guilt tripping people for your comfort.. not.

Take it easier, i understand why you say that, but i don't think this is going to help him.

OP, if a girlfriend is all you can think of in terms of worth living for, then you really need to explore the world.

Also, don't blame women. I'm not sure if you're really doing that so i'm not going to say that you are, but you are bordering on it. If women don't want a relationship with you, it's 50% because of you, as well.

I agree with perfanoff in that you are not ready for a relationship, but i disagree that you should just end it if you cannot get that, life is alot more than that.

What if you do get a girlfriend, what are you going to do with her? Have you thought about that? You probably have, but it's likely these ideas will be vague. These things you'd like to do with her, maybe try doing them alone or with a friend first.

See, when you do get a relationship, you will likely become quite possessive. A girlfriend is the only thing you seem to want, because you want to be like the rest. But if all you focus on is your girlfriend, insecurities, jealousy, and possessiveness are bound to ensue.

Think about life and all it can give, is there anything your family members do that you want to do as well?

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People like you are the reason people like me kill ourselves.

This is going to sound harsh, but no. "People like you" kill themselves because they don't want to see the available beauties in life. Again with blaming your problems on others, it doesn't work that way, buddy.

 

[Edward W]

I agree with Rosebolt, my previous post was not actually that helpful, sorry.

I do understand your thoughts, when not in a relationship it can seem that it's all you want, but just rememebr girlfriends are people as well, with their own issues and needs. You may well be posting in a few weeks ranting about how frustrated your girlfriend makes you!

Good luck.

 

[Drew88]

edit: whatever
I'm just going to ignore you. Good luck guilt tripping people for your comfort.. not.

Take it easier, i understand why you say that, but i don't think this is going to help him.

OP, if a girlfriend is all you can think of in terms of worth living for, then you really need to explore the world.

Also, don't blame women. I'm not sure if you're really doing that so i'm not going to say that you are, but you are bordering on it. If women don't want a relationship with you, it's 50% because of you, as well.

I agree with perfanoff in that you are not ready for a relationship, but i disagree that you should just end it if you cannot get that, life is alot more than that.

What if you do get a girlfriend, what are you going to do with her? Have you thought about that? You probably have, but it's likely these ideas will be vague. These things you'd like to do with her, maybe try doing them alone or with a friend first.

See, when you do get a relationship, you will likely become quite possessive. A girlfriend is the only thing you seem to want, because you want to be like the rest. But if all you focus on is your girlfriend, insecurities, jealousy, and possessiveness are bound to ensue.

Think about life and all it can give, is there anything your family members do that you want to do as well?

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People like you are the reason people like me kill ourselves.

This is going to sound harsh, but no. "People like you" kill themselves because they don't want to see the available beauties in life. Again with blaming your problems on others, it doesn't work that way, buddy.

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I say your wrong, I can handle a relationship.
Yeah, your right, I am this big A-hole who will never fulled be love because "he'll never be ready for a relationship".
I just hope I can rub it in your face when I am on my death bed with nobody by my side, as I predicted getting robbed of a future.
Theres nothing in life, I've looked.
Maybe I should just end it, as I am the problem of it all

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I agree with Rosebolt, my previous post was not actually that helpful, sorry.

I do understand your thoughts, when not in a relationship it can seem that it's all you want, but just rememebr girlfriends are people as well, with their own issues and needs. You may well be posting in a few weeks ranting about how frustrated your girlfriend makes you!

Good luck.

One can pray

 

[Gondwanaland]

Maybe I should just end it, as I am the problem of it all

No, that's not the solution. What makes you think a GF/spouse will improve your life???

 

[Drew88]

Maybe I should just end it, as I am the problem of it all

No, that's not the solution. What makes you think a GF/spouse will improve your life???

Caz I worthless in my present state. Full of failure, no one who needs me. No one is like "hey, i need [insert something] lets go talk to Drew" or "I would be lost with out drew"

 

[perfanoff]

Maybe I should just end it, as I am the problem of it all

No, that's not the solution. What makes you think a GF/spouse will improve your life???

No, that's not the question at all. What makes him think that HE will improve a SO's life instead of destroying her?

 

[Drew88]

Maybe I should just end it, as I am the problem of it all

No, that's not the solution. What makes you think a GF/spouse will improve your life???

No, that's not the question at all. What makes him think that HE will improve a SO's life instead of destroying her?

Your right, I can not enrich anybodys life. I am incapable of doing so. I deserve to be alone

 

[Regumika]

Maybe I should just end it, as I am the problem of it all

No, that's not the solution. What makes you think a GF/spouse will improve your life???

because having a gf/spouse means some cares. That is what any of us want, someone that cares. If you disagree with that, you're fooling yourself.

Drew88 - Comparing will be the end of you. Try your best to stop doing it.

 

[Drew88]

Maybe I should just end it, as I am the problem of it all

No, that's not the solution. What makes you think a GF/spouse will improve your life???

because having a gf/spouse means some cares. That is what any of us want, someone that cares. If you disagree with that, you're fooling yourself.

Drew88 - Comparing will be the end of you. Try your best to stop doing it.

Thank you. I try not to compare. However, its hard to be happy when I got nothing.

Does a homeless man feel happy for the man who has a home?