Ginock
Active member
Don't worry, I am not some kind of a spambot or looking to stalk anyone but it is a question I am interested in discussing. I am a 32 year old male who's longest relationship lasted three months and to be honest I am kind of okay with it in a way.
It may be that I am being self-effacing and that I am simply convincing myself that not being in a relationship is not that important to me, that I really don't need one in order to live my life or indeed to be happy but honestly I don't go ever re-call going out with the intention of trying to meet someone. I certainly would not go up a woman in a bar and try to be suave, sophisticated or otherwise the type of person who would just ask someone out.
The thing is though is I cannot ever see a time when I would think of myself as in a relationship, this is not a pity party but more of an admission that I think I just don't care.
Does anyone else feel the same way?
It may be that I am being self-effacing and that I am simply convincing myself that not being in a relationship is not that important to me, that I really don't need one in order to live my life or indeed to be happy but honestly I don't go ever re-call going out with the intention of trying to meet someone. I certainly would not go up a woman in a bar and try to be suave, sophisticated or otherwise the type of person who would just ask someone out.
The thing is though is I cannot ever see a time when I would think of myself as in a relationship, this is not a pity party but more of an admission that I think I just don't care.
Does anyone else feel the same way?